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thoughts anyone??? ideas for when he is in full refusal mode....
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<blockquote data-quote="Ktllc" data-source="post: 515562" data-attributes="member: 11847"><p>Buddy, you are dealing with an extraordinary child, but keep in mind he is a teenager and he will claim his "independance" like any other growing kid. Of course, independance will NOT have the same meaning. But although you reasons were 100% legit, his were too! I believe your issue is part of having a child growing up, thinking more for himself with the added twist of his disabilities.</p><p>When he comforted you (great social skill!), maybe you can express that you are tired. Therefor you need him to stick to the plan even more. Is it possible to have such a conversation with him? Can you plan ahead and allow x number of renegotation a week? And maybe have a no negotiation card for yourself when things are going good but you have your own reasons?</p><p>What is wonderful: your ability to sort things out and analize all the events. Can you share some (obviously not all) of it with Q so he feels included in the planning process?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ktllc, post: 515562, member: 11847"] Buddy, you are dealing with an extraordinary child, but keep in mind he is a teenager and he will claim his "independance" like any other growing kid. Of course, independance will NOT have the same meaning. But although you reasons were 100% legit, his were too! I believe your issue is part of having a child growing up, thinking more for himself with the added twist of his disabilities. When he comforted you (great social skill!), maybe you can express that you are tired. Therefor you need him to stick to the plan even more. Is it possible to have such a conversation with him? Can you plan ahead and allow x number of renegotation a week? And maybe have a no negotiation card for yourself when things are going good but you have your own reasons? What is wonderful: your ability to sort things out and analize all the events. Can you share some (obviously not all) of it with Q so he feels included in the planning process? [/QUOTE]
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