timer lady
Queen of Hearts
I had 7 SWs sitting about my kitchen island Tuesday afternoon, along with a couple of PCAs & one potential Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) worker.
It was a long work in progress; before husband got ill & passed away, before our cabin adventures. I'd been attempting to get the same Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) agency that works with wm to start working again with kt. For a year they declared it was a "conflict of interest" to treat the twins. After 2 year of working with wm, this agency began seeing my point. You can't work/talk/whatever with wm with-o kt coming up in any conversation. And the reverse.
It's finally happened ~ I'm dealing with one less agency. The Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) treatment lead for wm will also be the lead for kt. The in home tdocs will work together to rework the risk management plans to integrate visits, & other very specialized work dealing with past abuse & the need to overcome some pretty large obstacles & learn new skills.
The mtg lasted 3 hours & everyone left feeling light hearted; like we had all made good decisions on behalf of my tweedles. I cannot think of one thing we overlooked. One circumstance that may blow up into a rage or meltdown. One trigger that results in potential dissociation or hospitalization.
And while I had been feeling pretty good about the progress kt & wm have made ~ it hit me hard how much more they have to overcome. It was like a slap in the face.
It was a long work in progress; before husband got ill & passed away, before our cabin adventures. I'd been attempting to get the same Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) agency that works with wm to start working again with kt. For a year they declared it was a "conflict of interest" to treat the twins. After 2 year of working with wm, this agency began seeing my point. You can't work/talk/whatever with wm with-o kt coming up in any conversation. And the reverse.
It's finally happened ~ I'm dealing with one less agency. The Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) treatment lead for wm will also be the lead for kt. The in home tdocs will work together to rework the risk management plans to integrate visits, & other very specialized work dealing with past abuse & the need to overcome some pretty large obstacles & learn new skills.
The mtg lasted 3 hours & everyone left feeling light hearted; like we had all made good decisions on behalf of my tweedles. I cannot think of one thing we overlooked. One circumstance that may blow up into a rage or meltdown. One trigger that results in potential dissociation or hospitalization.
And while I had been feeling pretty good about the progress kt & wm have made ~ it hit me hard how much more they have to overcome. It was like a slap in the face.