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<blockquote data-quote="Dixies_fire" data-source="post: 590876" data-attributes="member: 16184"><p>I generally don't spank as much anymore. Was kind of a gut reaction. I've been spanking less and less over the past year. And y'all are right it doesn't seem to do much good when I do it and the more of a reaction I give her about anything the worse every behavior gets.</p><p></p><p>I'm just angry.</p><p>She has always had little quirks.</p><p>Always always. But it blows my mind that she exhibiting more and worse behavior daily. </p><p></p><p>No no neuropsychologist yet. Waiting to get into developmental pediatrician. </p><p></p><p>I asked her why she did it and of course no answer. </p><p></p><p>As far as her living with her dad it was a decision made before hubs started getting help. Had surgery scheduled or anything. We knew what the problem was with him but there was no help coming. They were clashing in a major way. I was at the point where I was going to have to relocate by myself with all three children somewhere else in a hurry with no job or safety net at the other side. I thought.... To would be better off in a more stable environment like with her dad, whom she adores because he has a lot of the same issues she has in retrospect and seems to handle the behavior that seems outlandish to me, better. I wasn't thinking her problems would just go away or saying I couldn't deal with it anymore or what have you. I was trying to think of her welfare. Her dad wasn't moving here at the time he had a house in alabama where he had always lived that had room for her. It surprised the **** out of me when he moved up here when I told him honestly about the differences in cost of living between here and there and that I didn't think it was a great idea because honestly if my husband wasn't stationed here I would not want to live here. I've told him repeatedly now that I don't think tk moving in with him now is a great idea since he doesn't have space and doesn't think she has any issues when occasionally she's violent and is having more and more off behavior.</p><p></p><p>I've been making a circuit of her bedroom after she is asleep and when she goes to school but the bathroom thing never occurred to me. We've been having issues of her shredding and cutting paper in her closet when she's supposed to be sleeping. I'm very close to locking up her bedroom and bathroom and moving her bed to the library in the interest of less privacy.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Anyway could probably meander through this thread for another hour but I need to get productive.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Dixies_fire, post: 590876, member: 16184"] I generally don't spank as much anymore. Was kind of a gut reaction. I've been spanking less and less over the past year. And y'all are right it doesn't seem to do much good when I do it and the more of a reaction I give her about anything the worse every behavior gets. I'm just angry. She has always had little quirks. Always always. But it blows my mind that she exhibiting more and worse behavior daily. No no neuropsychologist yet. Waiting to get into developmental pediatrician. I asked her why she did it and of course no answer. As far as her living with her dad it was a decision made before hubs started getting help. Had surgery scheduled or anything. We knew what the problem was with him but there was no help coming. They were clashing in a major way. I was at the point where I was going to have to relocate by myself with all three children somewhere else in a hurry with no job or safety net at the other side. I thought.... To would be better off in a more stable environment like with her dad, whom she adores because he has a lot of the same issues she has in retrospect and seems to handle the behavior that seems outlandish to me, better. I wasn't thinking her problems would just go away or saying I couldn't deal with it anymore or what have you. I was trying to think of her welfare. Her dad wasn't moving here at the time he had a house in alabama where he had always lived that had room for her. It surprised the **** out of me when he moved up here when I told him honestly about the differences in cost of living between here and there and that I didn't think it was a great idea because honestly if my husband wasn't stationed here I would not want to live here. I've told him repeatedly now that I don't think tk moving in with him now is a great idea since he doesn't have space and doesn't think she has any issues when occasionally she's violent and is having more and more off behavior. I've been making a circuit of her bedroom after she is asleep and when she goes to school but the bathroom thing never occurred to me. We've been having issues of her shredding and cutting paper in her closet when she's supposed to be sleeping. I'm very close to locking up her bedroom and bathroom and moving her bed to the library in the interest of less privacy. Anyway could probably meander through this thread for another hour but I need to get productive. [/QUOTE]
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