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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 473257" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>You know Keista, you are right. I have limited what I am doing for them this time. But of course I love them and want grandma to be ok. she has survived so much (came from germany during the ugly times) and she has ptsd. They are very good to us too. But last time this happened I cleaned their house, even all the towels they throw on the floor for the dogs to pee on and the house just is so smelly from all the pet stink (two cats three dogs) and cigarettes, I just can't take it. I will clean kitty litter but I can't do that pee laundry. It is very cluttered too (And I am NO neat freak, but she falls easily so under normal circumstances..but the stairs gong up, holy cow she can barely walk. PHN sees it like that every month though). I ask daugher for gas money when she wants a ride and it always has to be planned. I do have pretty good boundaries but this caught me at a vulnerable time I think. I have daughter. credit card and I was at 1.00 in my account due to gas to and frm hospital. I went to get money to buy food and NOTHING. She now says it will be in there today. So my mom brought a bag and we dug thru our cupboards. Yikes, poor things. They are both really wonderful people.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 473257, member: 12886"] You know Keista, you are right. I have limited what I am doing for them this time. But of course I love them and want grandma to be ok. she has survived so much (came from germany during the ugly times) and she has ptsd. They are very good to us too. But last time this happened I cleaned their house, even all the towels they throw on the floor for the dogs to pee on and the house just is so smelly from all the pet stink (two cats three dogs) and cigarettes, I just can't take it. I will clean kitty litter but I can't do that pee laundry. It is very cluttered too (And I am NO neat freak, but she falls easily so under normal circumstances..but the stairs gong up, holy cow she can barely walk. PHN sees it like that every month though). I ask daugher for gas money when she wants a ride and it always has to be planned. I do have pretty good boundaries but this caught me at a vulnerable time I think. I have daughter. credit card and I was at 1.00 in my account due to gas to and frm hospital. I went to get money to buy food and NOTHING. She now says it will be in there today. So my mom brought a bag and we dug thru our cupboards. Yikes, poor things. They are both really wonderful people. [/QUOTE]
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