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<blockquote data-quote="PatriotsGirl" data-source="post: 597181" data-attributes="member: 15796"><p>At first I said I wanted nothing to do with raising another child, but as he has gotten real (may sound weird I know), my heart is changing. I am beginning to think about life and what kind of legacy are we leaving behind. Our jobs? Ha - our jobs are nothing that will leave behind any worth. In the end, at least in our case, family is all we got. And Connor is MY blood. </p><p></p><p>But I don't think my husband is changing his mind. He still doesn't want to raise a baby. Yet he will have no issues if she turns out to be a single mom and relying on us. He is actually praying that M is NOT the father. He has already warned me that if we are all at the hospital together, husband may very well go to jail for beating the **** out of M. He hates this man with a passion and has never even laid eyes on him. </p><p></p><p>It will KILL me if I have to choose between my husband and my grandson. This is REALLY bothering me lately and while husband thinks my mood has just been because of my nerves, it is very much to do with <em>this</em>. I am afraid if I have to choose between them, I will end up resenting my husband. I am already resenting him for the possibility of my having to be in the position to choose. It is not fair and I am very aware of that. But they are my feelings. </p><p></p><p>This is why her decision very much affects me and my life...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PatriotsGirl, post: 597181, member: 15796"] At first I said I wanted nothing to do with raising another child, but as he has gotten real (may sound weird I know), my heart is changing. I am beginning to think about life and what kind of legacy are we leaving behind. Our jobs? Ha - our jobs are nothing that will leave behind any worth. In the end, at least in our case, family is all we got. And Connor is MY blood. But I don't think my husband is changing his mind. He still doesn't want to raise a baby. Yet he will have no issues if she turns out to be a single mom and relying on us. He is actually praying that M is NOT the father. He has already warned me that if we are all at the hospital together, husband may very well go to jail for beating the **** out of M. He hates this man with a passion and has never even laid eyes on him. It will KILL me if I have to choose between my husband and my grandson. This is REALLY bothering me lately and while husband thinks my mood has just been because of my nerves, it is very much to do with [I]this[/I]. I am afraid if I have to choose between them, I will end up resenting my husband. I am already resenting him for the possibility of my having to be in the position to choose. It is not fair and I am very aware of that. But they are my feelings. This is why her decision very much affects me and my life... [/QUOTE]
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