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Tons of mixed feelings and questions
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<blockquote data-quote="flutterby" data-source="post: 540527" data-attributes="member: 7083"><p>I think you should allow yourself to validate what you went through and put your parents through as a kid. Maybe apologize to your parents for the things you feel bad about - it might be a really good way to slip in a print out or brochure on NonVerbal Learning Disorder (NVLD). People tend to be more receptive when they aren't feeling defensive, which I wonder is the reasons why it is hard to talk to your parents about this (guilt tends to make one defensive). And then I think you should feel very proud of yourself for overcoming this disability on your own and that should be your focus. </p><p></p><p>We do have to allow ourselves to recognize and validate past hurts in order to move on from them. But you have so many things to be proud of that are much bigger and longer lasting to dwell for too long.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="flutterby, post: 540527, member: 7083"] I think you should allow yourself to validate what you went through and put your parents through as a kid. Maybe apologize to your parents for the things you feel bad about - it might be a really good way to slip in a print out or brochure on NonVerbal Learning Disorder (NVLD). People tend to be more receptive when they aren't feeling defensive, which I wonder is the reasons why it is hard to talk to your parents about this (guilt tends to make one defensive). And then I think you should feel very proud of yourself for overcoming this disability on your own and that should be your focus. We do have to allow ourselves to recognize and validate past hurts in order to move on from them. But you have so many things to be proud of that are much bigger and longer lasting to dwell for too long. [/QUOTE]
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