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<blockquote data-quote="Andy" data-source="post: 412021" data-attributes="member: 5096"><p>O.K. This may be wrong - I am thinking out of the box here but would you be willing to remove yourself from the house for an hour when she starts this? I think her emotions and behaviors are directed soley to you. How good would H be at handling her if you were gone? It would be interesting to see how she would behave if you were not there.</p><p> </p><p>When Diva was being horrid, I would grab difficult child and leave her at home with husband for about 1/2 hour or so. Her anger was against me and she would take it out on difficult child but never on husband. I would say something like, "I am not dealing with this behavior. I will return when you settle down." husband was really good about tuning it out, not engaging. </p><p> </p><p>She needed a time out but I was unable to get her to take one so I left the scene with husband in charge of keeping her safe. I refused to be screamed at and harrassed and if she would not back down than I would leave.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Andy, post: 412021, member: 5096"] O.K. This may be wrong - I am thinking out of the box here but would you be willing to remove yourself from the house for an hour when she starts this? I think her emotions and behaviors are directed soley to you. How good would H be at handling her if you were gone? It would be interesting to see how she would behave if you were not there. When Diva was being horrid, I would grab difficult child and leave her at home with husband for about 1/2 hour or so. Her anger was against me and she would take it out on difficult child but never on husband. I would say something like, "I am not dealing with this behavior. I will return when you settle down." husband was really good about tuning it out, not engaging. She needed a time out but I was unable to get her to take one so I left the scene with husband in charge of keeping her safe. I refused to be screamed at and harrassed and if she would not back down than I would leave. [/QUOTE]
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