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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 412027" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>sven hey, i can soo relate to that!! sheesh we or I did same. id' hold her down in her toddler bed for hours my hand on her back as she kicked and screamed to fight sleep and staying still on certain nights, most actually.</p><p> </p><p>she dove out of the crib year and a half old and cracked her elbow took 4 hr surgery to repair it than lead us to toddler bed. we tried and did everything nothing helped at all. she' go into kitchen at night pull pans out etc. than we put gates around she got past those. we have literally struggle for years with-this behavior. i NEVER when she was little pulled her in my bed to calm her, or make it end i fought the fight same as i do now. difference is now i have more kids and she's affecting everyone else. she wont' even "cope" on her own in her room if we give her ok here's a list of coping skills. only thing that works is the right medication to knock her out. medications only work for a percentage of time than they adjust we increase than they eventually stop working.</p><p> </p><p>so yea it's 12 years of exhaustion. i remember as an infant what she'd do break day sooo many nights just her and i on the couch because my ex h couldnt' get sleep and was working two jobs at the time and easy child had school in a.m. i was like what's wrong with-this kid. she wouldnt' adhere to nursing she literally gave me horrifying infection my milk which well was alot wasnt' enough for her. it didnt' calm till we got her on solids. even than she would lay in her bed, crib, etc. moaning sucking her thumb for hours till she finally passed out.</p><p> </p><p>she got handed one bad bad lot of genes bottomline.</p><p> </p><p>andy that wouldnt' work we tried that. husband doesn't have the patience for her at all. she'd just lay awake in bed till i returned than harrass me. only place it works is in hospital because as she said she feels safer because ppl are there to watch and check on her and also its' quiet no action at all at least in her room with both hospitals. also hospital is the control factor here at home we dont' have one just the medication and way too many variables... its' the same behavior during day as at night.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 412027, member: 4514"] sven hey, i can soo relate to that!! sheesh we or I did same. id' hold her down in her toddler bed for hours my hand on her back as she kicked and screamed to fight sleep and staying still on certain nights, most actually. she dove out of the crib year and a half old and cracked her elbow took 4 hr surgery to repair it than lead us to toddler bed. we tried and did everything nothing helped at all. she' go into kitchen at night pull pans out etc. than we put gates around she got past those. we have literally struggle for years with-this behavior. i NEVER when she was little pulled her in my bed to calm her, or make it end i fought the fight same as i do now. difference is now i have more kids and she's affecting everyone else. she wont' even "cope" on her own in her room if we give her ok here's a list of coping skills. only thing that works is the right medication to knock her out. medications only work for a percentage of time than they adjust we increase than they eventually stop working. so yea it's 12 years of exhaustion. i remember as an infant what she'd do break day sooo many nights just her and i on the couch because my ex h couldnt' get sleep and was working two jobs at the time and easy child had school in a.m. i was like what's wrong with-this kid. she wouldnt' adhere to nursing she literally gave me horrifying infection my milk which well was alot wasnt' enough for her. it didnt' calm till we got her on solids. even than she would lay in her bed, crib, etc. moaning sucking her thumb for hours till she finally passed out. she got handed one bad bad lot of genes bottomline. andy that wouldnt' work we tried that. husband doesn't have the patience for her at all. she'd just lay awake in bed till i returned than harrass me. only place it works is in hospital because as she said she feels safer because ppl are there to watch and check on her and also its' quiet no action at all at least in her room with both hospitals. also hospital is the control factor here at home we dont' have one just the medication and way too many variables... its' the same behavior during day as at night. [/QUOTE]
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