hi it's me again, i know i'm bad i'm just posting when things here aren't good. i cna't help it i don't have time lately at all and difficult child is still melting down. difficult child is refusing to go to play practice, she refused to go to school all week long. It's getting to the point where I have to pick and chose my battles here cause our life's getting pretty intense the past two weeks and ugly. She overall doesn't like leaving the house, if its something fun she wants to do it takes coaxing to get her ready adn get her out. Yet she'll go. She's always been this way ever since she could walk. I tend to wonder at times if it's a larger issue or if this is all her anxiety and disorders speaking. Or does she have a larger disorder that being "not" wanting to leave home?? I just don't know. Like I said she enjoys going out if we go somewhere "good", yet like I said it takes hours of get ready difficult child, get ready it takes continous prompting. So, today it's another fight to go to dance practice, play is in two weeks. she doesn't wanna go, she doesn't wanna be in the play she doens't wanna go on stage in two weeks, she's melting down yelling at me, storming around slamming doors. And, for what?? really? I told her school isn't an option that is a legal obligation I have to get you there, yet thsi is supposed to be "fun" something "good" for you and it isnt' that. WE have spent mos fighting, battling, dragging her off to play practice, talking about it, coaxing her, etc. Obviously as well all know I made a mistake I raised the bar too high this time, she belonged in alow key hip hop class to start I messed up, it happens. yet now it is what it is. The kids' a wreck and I just see no point in it anymore. Plus I"m beginning to wonder about thsi larger "leaving the house" issue. Yet is it that since when it's "fun" things I can get her out eventually. Like I said takes awhole lotta prompting. She feels safest here.