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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 234924" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>Jane it sounds like you have gone thru what I have, it's not easy. Im going to keep trying, my next approach which should of been my first approach is music lessons, maybe the guitar. She's always wanted to learn, it will hopefully build her self esteem and confidence than maybe in time we can go ahead and go for a more "group" thing again.</p><p> </p><p>Compassion that's cool, I guess the dancing in the room is good, still getting to do what they love yet in their own environment. I think as far as the structure is concerned I have always made a whole lotta provisions for difficult child, changed my schedule when necessary. For the past few mos i've been purposely doing things either different or purposely having no structure so that she can realize that Hey guess what your still ok even though we dont' have this, this and that in that order. It seems to be working for the most part, a little stress while doing it yet minimal anxiety.</p><p> </p><p>Andy I'm glad to hear that you dropped both of them off together and they got on ok. That happens alot soemtimes, when their with us the parents they lose it yet alone they fare well. interesting. </p><p> </p><p>She hasn't said a word since deciding to drop the play and me handling it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 234924, member: 4514"] Jane it sounds like you have gone thru what I have, it's not easy. Im going to keep trying, my next approach which should of been my first approach is music lessons, maybe the guitar. She's always wanted to learn, it will hopefully build her self esteem and confidence than maybe in time we can go ahead and go for a more "group" thing again. Compassion that's cool, I guess the dancing in the room is good, still getting to do what they love yet in their own environment. I think as far as the structure is concerned I have always made a whole lotta provisions for difficult child, changed my schedule when necessary. For the past few mos i've been purposely doing things either different or purposely having no structure so that she can realize that Hey guess what your still ok even though we dont' have this, this and that in that order. It seems to be working for the most part, a little stress while doing it yet minimal anxiety. Andy I'm glad to hear that you dropped both of them off together and they got on ok. That happens alot soemtimes, when their with us the parents they lose it yet alone they fare well. interesting. She hasn't said a word since deciding to drop the play and me handling it. [/QUOTE]
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