Hi all! I'm new to the forum, and as you probably guessed...I'm at the end of my rope (again). So tired of all the tension in my house and arguments that my difficult child starts. Great kid, but has diarrhea of the mouth and is very disrespectful. What's also driving me crazy is that my 4 year old has started saying some of the same things she hears her older sister say. Aaagghh!!! Has anyone with an ADHD/ODD tween tried the Total Transformation system? If so, did it help? I was thinking of trying this instead of starting therapy sessions for my 12 year old. I have been contemplating buying it, but am afraid it'll be a waste of money.