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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 583653" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hi there and welcome to the board.</p><p></p><p>I am wondering if there is more to her not talking to you than her just what you think. Now I tend to jump to this conclusion often because it happened with MY daughter, but is it possible she just is in a bad place and doing things she knows you don't approve of so she wants to keep her distance? The first thing that comes to mind is drugs. Many teens suddenly change because of drugs, often after meeting some boy who is on drugs and gets them involved. I don't know if I'm on the right track, but the missing money would fit in as well because drug abusers do spend money on drugs...lots of money. They also tend to lose ambition.</p><p></p><p>Regardless of why she is not talking to you right now, you most certainly DID give her the best you had and now it's her turn to sink or swim and, yes, you should go on with your life. I don't know if you are paying her bills, but I wouldn't anymore. She's working and not living at home anymore. in my opinion you have nothing to feel guilty about. Every single parent on earth has made mistakes. Your daughter knows what she is doing and she is responsible for it. You aren't.</p><p></p><p>Keep posting. Nice to "meet" you, but sorry you had to come.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 583653, member: 1550"] Hi there and welcome to the board. I am wondering if there is more to her not talking to you than her just what you think. Now I tend to jump to this conclusion often because it happened with MY daughter, but is it possible she just is in a bad place and doing things she knows you don't approve of so she wants to keep her distance? The first thing that comes to mind is drugs. Many teens suddenly change because of drugs, often after meeting some boy who is on drugs and gets them involved. I don't know if I'm on the right track, but the missing money would fit in as well because drug abusers do spend money on drugs...lots of money. They also tend to lose ambition. Regardless of why she is not talking to you right now, you most certainly DID give her the best you had and now it's her turn to sink or swim and, yes, you should go on with your life. I don't know if you are paying her bills, but I wouldn't anymore. She's working and not living at home anymore. in my opinion you have nothing to feel guilty about. Every single parent on earth has made mistakes. Your daughter knows what she is doing and she is responsible for it. You aren't. Keep posting. Nice to "meet" you, but sorry you had to come. [/QUOTE]
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