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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 764664" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p>Hi Copa, My husband does not even know I talk about him on this board. We have had a few peaceful days. I was looking at cruises and told him I want to go solo. He said he recently watched a movie on cruise ship murders and wants to go with me. I live an hour and a half from a cruise port. He takes regular trips without me. He goes way into the wilderness and stays for about 2 weeks. He flies into heavy wooded areas and fishes, camps and hikes. I am ok with this but if I want to go anywhere he acts like I am asking for the world. My work took me to many cities and after awhile I got burned out on traveling. My husband has a Dr. appointment on Feb 1st. I have not scheduled a therapy session with him because if I start talking about all the stupid stuff he does I will be deeply irritated.</p><p>My daughter was nasty to me a few days ago. I made distance from her. She wrote a nice note and bought me a bag filled with my favorite foods, fresh almond butter etc. This pattern I do not like. Treating me like crap then thinking buying me a gift will make it all go away. She has tried to make things right but her behavior is still way out of line. It is better than years ago. I wonder if she knows the spiritual damage she does by harming others with her ugly tone and words.</p><p></p><p>Today my husband S and I went shopping. S was patient while I looked at clothes. He usually is not patient. He knows he has done me wrong. </p><p></p><p>Things are a bit calm and the urge to pummel has lessened only 1/2. I need a long break away from him. I need to go somewhere I can be alone with my thoughts. I need to reground and regroup. </p><p>Always the best to you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 764664, member: 22416"] Hi Copa, My husband does not even know I talk about him on this board. We have had a few peaceful days. I was looking at cruises and told him I want to go solo. He said he recently watched a movie on cruise ship murders and wants to go with me. I live an hour and a half from a cruise port. He takes regular trips without me. He goes way into the wilderness and stays for about 2 weeks. He flies into heavy wooded areas and fishes, camps and hikes. I am ok with this but if I want to go anywhere he acts like I am asking for the world. My work took me to many cities and after awhile I got burned out on traveling. My husband has a Dr. appointment on Feb 1st. I have not scheduled a therapy session with him because if I start talking about all the stupid stuff he does I will be deeply irritated. My daughter was nasty to me a few days ago. I made distance from her. She wrote a nice note and bought me a bag filled with my favorite foods, fresh almond butter etc. This pattern I do not like. Treating me like crap then thinking buying me a gift will make it all go away. She has tried to make things right but her behavior is still way out of line. It is better than years ago. I wonder if she knows the spiritual damage she does by harming others with her ugly tone and words. Today my husband S and I went shopping. S was patient while I looked at clothes. He usually is not patient. He knows he has done me wrong. Things are a bit calm and the urge to pummel has lessened only 1/2. I need a long break away from him. I need to go somewhere I can be alone with my thoughts. I need to reground and regroup. Always the best to you. [/QUOTE]
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