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<blockquote data-quote="kris" data-source="post: 49530" data-attributes="member: 74"><p><span style='font-size: 11pt'> <span style='font-family: Georgia'> <span style="color: #990000"> <em>the situation you described is exactly why i cautioned you against you supervising the visits. you simply must fine someone else to do it. cps probably won't but they should have an agency or two that provides this service...it will cost but you can request ~~~ in court ~~~ that bio pay half or some reasonable percentage. the catch is that if the fees don't get paid they will suspend visitation.....and report the problem to the court. thus leaving you & husband out of the fray. with-o outside supervision it will be a big broohaha every time it's time to end the visit & you will ALWAYS BE THE BAD GUY! you are trying to build a better relationship with-difficult child....not add more stressors.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>it's worth the expense & the hassle of getting the court order in my opinion. will save you a ton of angst & just general crap down the road. i do understand why, after having to deal with-cps all this time, you would be reluctant to go the court route, but you need to protect yourself.....and difficult child.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>good luck.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>kris </em> </span> </span> </span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="kris, post: 49530, member: 74"] <span style='font-size: 11pt'> <span style='font-family: Georgia'> <span style="color: #990000"> [i]the situation you described is exactly why i cautioned you against you supervising the visits. you simply must fine someone else to do it. cps probably won't but they should have an agency or two that provides this service...it will cost but you can request ~~~ in court ~~~ that bio pay half or some reasonable percentage. the catch is that if the fees don't get paid they will suspend visitation.....and report the problem to the court. thus leaving you & husband out of the fray. with-o outside supervision it will be a big broohaha every time it's time to end the visit & you will ALWAYS BE THE BAD GUY! you are trying to build a better relationship with-difficult child....not add more stressors. it's worth the expense & the hassle of getting the court order in my opinion. will save you a ton of angst & just general crap down the road. i do understand why, after having to deal with-cps all this time, you would be reluctant to go the court route, but you need to protect yourself.....and difficult child. good luck. kris [/i] </span> </span> </span> [/QUOTE]
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