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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 573323" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>oh gosh, just a bunch of yuck. These can NOT be the first challenging kids they have had there??? Well, whatever the protocol is, maybe take one decent page from the USA behavior plan system and have it be a positive behavior plan in some way, focusing on his learning and using appropriate behavior skills. That way he can earn extra things, not necessarily have things taken away (which I would save for only serious injury, not "rude" talk or play fights/hyper behavior). If necessary maybe you can provide the little reward chest or some such thing that he can grab from for meeting his goals. He is so bright he may do better with this kind of thing than kids like Q though this works for Q if he does not have to wait for a reward over days and he gets cues.</p><p></p><p>There are a million specific ways to cue him and certainly we could all throw out what has worked and what has been a disaster (but used commonly) for our kids. Things like Red light/yellow/green for behavior can work IF it is not all or nothing and the child is able to earn their way off RED after a short time (if they go to red and miss out for the day that usually does not work for a difficult child....Q was always on red with that kind of system. But if he gets a verbal cue, then does not respond he goes to yellow and if after five minutes he is calm he goes back to green.....that works really well for Q. (not something that can be done with a full class easily but can be done with a small group of kids if an aide is assigned to manage the plan)</p><p></p><p>It would also be nice if they could play games with the kids to help teach them limits with touch and turn taking and if they get big praise for following those kinds of rules that could help them with the regulation.</p><p></p><p>I'd stay far away from the call mom if he is being rude kind of plan, many of us as you know have gone down that road.....except for serious injury or his smuggling drugs into school, lol, I'd encourage them to do the great job you know they can do since they are so wonderful, (cough) and help him to continue the great progress you have seen.</p><p></p><p>This kind of thing would make me wonder about medications, not for their sake.....but your description of him shattered.....that is really sad......But a good plan first would be best.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 573323, member: 12886"] oh gosh, just a bunch of yuck. These can NOT be the first challenging kids they have had there??? Well, whatever the protocol is, maybe take one decent page from the USA behavior plan system and have it be a positive behavior plan in some way, focusing on his learning and using appropriate behavior skills. That way he can earn extra things, not necessarily have things taken away (which I would save for only serious injury, not "rude" talk or play fights/hyper behavior). If necessary maybe you can provide the little reward chest or some such thing that he can grab from for meeting his goals. He is so bright he may do better with this kind of thing than kids like Q though this works for Q if he does not have to wait for a reward over days and he gets cues. There are a million specific ways to cue him and certainly we could all throw out what has worked and what has been a disaster (but used commonly) for our kids. Things like Red light/yellow/green for behavior can work IF it is not all or nothing and the child is able to earn their way off RED after a short time (if they go to red and miss out for the day that usually does not work for a difficult child....Q was always on red with that kind of system. But if he gets a verbal cue, then does not respond he goes to yellow and if after five minutes he is calm he goes back to green.....that works really well for Q. (not something that can be done with a full class easily but can be done with a small group of kids if an aide is assigned to manage the plan) It would also be nice if they could play games with the kids to help teach them limits with touch and turn taking and if they get big praise for following those kinds of rules that could help them with the regulation. I'd stay far away from the call mom if he is being rude kind of plan, many of us as you know have gone down that road.....except for serious injury or his smuggling drugs into school, lol, I'd encourage them to do the great job you know they can do since they are so wonderful, (cough) and help him to continue the great progress you have seen. This kind of thing would make me wonder about medications, not for their sake.....but your description of him shattered.....that is really sad......But a good plan first would be best. [/QUOTE]
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