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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 583058" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>It could be interesting to see what will happen if your response truly changes. Not being passive aggressive ...but just let her know, you've decided to take care of yourself. She has to get to school. No matter what time she wakes. It's on her if that's late. (Yes, you may get letters but document your efforts and keep up the school collaboration etc)</p><p></p><p>Try keeping the drama low. She finally gets in the car.....talk about the song on the radio.</p><p></p><p>Just get her there and sit there till she gets out. I might even reduce the pep talks to get her out of the car. She says she can't? Fine, immediately call the guys who have been helping you get her in. No lectures, no reprimand ....just OK, thanks for letting me know you need help. </p><p>(Thats a method I learned in a Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) book by the way, thank them for letting you know what needs to be done then do it)</p><p></p><p>Your modeling how to decrease your stress (won't feel that way inside for a while, but I'm doing this...it does work!)</p><p>Can help her too.</p><p></p><p>Hope you're ok!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 583058, member: 12886"] It could be interesting to see what will happen if your response truly changes. Not being passive aggressive ...but just let her know, you've decided to take care of yourself. She has to get to school. No matter what time she wakes. It's on her if that's late. (Yes, you may get letters but document your efforts and keep up the school collaboration etc) Try keeping the drama low. She finally gets in the car.....talk about the song on the radio. Just get her there and sit there till she gets out. I might even reduce the pep talks to get her out of the car. She says she can't? Fine, immediately call the guys who have been helping you get her in. No lectures, no reprimand ....just OK, thanks for letting me know you need help. (Thats a method I learned in a Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) book by the way, thank them for letting you know what needs to be done then do it) Your modeling how to decrease your stress (won't feel that way inside for a while, but I'm doing this...it does work!) Can help her too. Hope you're ok! [/QUOTE]
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