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<blockquote data-quote="crazymama30" data-source="post: 453998" data-attributes="member: 3184"><p>TL, I was going ask first thing if I can get to an appointment at 11am, and if not I will rescedule it. People are usually very understanding when it is court stuff, especially this kind of court stuff and a grand jury to boot!</p><p></p><p></p><p>And you are too right about addictions. He is not the person he was, and I simply cannot believe he will ever be the real him again. It is too risky, and I have spent too much time and energy waiting for that. I can't even hope for that anymore if I try, it is gone.</p><p></p><p>The dog is a good idea, but we already have 4 dogs and that is too many. There is really no way we can get another dog. The restraining order is the best I can do, and it will make him angry that I have it and could actually make things worse, but at least when I call the police it is documented and they will hurry out and arrest him. I hate restraining orders, I think that they are very abused, but I also know that mine is warranted and have no qualms about getting it.</p><p></p><p>I just wish there was not so much to do today. Mom comes home from the hospital tomorrow, and I really need to get the house ready for her and I have not had much of a chance to do that. She will be using a walker and I need to be sure that she can get around with it. I will have to find the time sometime today to do that. Not sure when. but I will. I told her about him coming over drunk, but have not told her yet that the front door needs replaced. I will have to do that today when I go see her, it would be not fair to bring her home and then realize the door is broken. I have a feeling I will be replacing the front door this weekend. Oh well. It does not sound too hard. Unscrew the old, screw in the new. </p><p></p><p>After I first kicked husband out I felt like life was surreal for several days, like it was all a bad dream and I could not wake up. I am now getting that feeling again, and I don't like it. I have to force myself to snap out of it so I can do what I need to. I just want it all to go away. I know it will at some point, but it will not be quick.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="crazymama30, post: 453998, member: 3184"] TL, I was going ask first thing if I can get to an appointment at 11am, and if not I will rescedule it. People are usually very understanding when it is court stuff, especially this kind of court stuff and a grand jury to boot! And you are too right about addictions. He is not the person he was, and I simply cannot believe he will ever be the real him again. It is too risky, and I have spent too much time and energy waiting for that. I can't even hope for that anymore if I try, it is gone. The dog is a good idea, but we already have 4 dogs and that is too many. There is really no way we can get another dog. The restraining order is the best I can do, and it will make him angry that I have it and could actually make things worse, but at least when I call the police it is documented and they will hurry out and arrest him. I hate restraining orders, I think that they are very abused, but I also know that mine is warranted and have no qualms about getting it. I just wish there was not so much to do today. Mom comes home from the hospital tomorrow, and I really need to get the house ready for her and I have not had much of a chance to do that. She will be using a walker and I need to be sure that she can get around with it. I will have to find the time sometime today to do that. Not sure when. but I will. I told her about him coming over drunk, but have not told her yet that the front door needs replaced. I will have to do that today when I go see her, it would be not fair to bring her home and then realize the door is broken. I have a feeling I will be replacing the front door this weekend. Oh well. It does not sound too hard. Unscrew the old, screw in the new. After I first kicked husband out I felt like life was surreal for several days, like it was all a bad dream and I could not wake up. I am now getting that feeling again, and I don't like it. I have to force myself to snap out of it so I can do what I need to. I just want it all to go away. I know it will at some point, but it will not be quick. [/QUOTE]
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