crazymama30
Active Member
So husband was being good about being gone, being annoying with wanting to text all the time, but really? I was shocked at how well he was doing.
That was too good to last.
I went to bed last night and was almost asleep, and was woken up by him trying to climb in my window!!! I told him to get out, he would not. I could smell the booze on his breath, and he can be scary when he is drunk. He would not leave, so I called 911. He ripped the fan out of the window and threw it across the room. Police came, he was gone, said to call them if he came back.
About an hr or a little less later, I went outside to smoke and saw husband drive by and stop. I ran in and locked the windows and doors (I thought). A few minutes later I heard a noise from the back of the house. My window was not locked. husband was in the hallway. He was not threatening at this point, just kept wanting me to listen to him. I told him to leave several times, he would not, so I called 911 again. While I had the dispatcher on the line I got him out of the house. I turned before I shut the door and he was running back up to the door. I locked and deadbolted the door and he started to try to kick it in. The door almost gave and cracked, and then he left.
The police came and took photos and did catch him. He is charged with DUII, criminial mischief and criminal trespass. I had to take out the deadbolt to open the door, and the door is cracked and ruined. I have been shaking on and off ever since. I have filled out the restraining order paperwork and will turn it in tomorrow. I also am a witness to the grand jury as some of his charges are felonies. I have to appear tomorrow at 9:45, will turn in the restraining order paper work at the same time, and then I hope I can make my 11am appointment to get difficult child set up with wrap around.
It was a horrible night. difficult child was terrified last night, he slept with me and has not done that in ages. easy child was upset with me originally, but by morning she was over that and realized that her dad made his own choices. They both get upset with me randomly, and just upset randomly. I am glad that we are safe, he is in jail and will hopefully be there a while. The da called me and asked if I thought husband was suicidal. I said I was sure he was. However? There problem not mine.
I will not live the life we were, it will not happen. I don't care who I have to testify in front of, I will not be bullied and my children will not be tormented. I am done playing nice. Now I mean business, and it will not be pretty. I hate to think of the fallout when the kids figure out I testified against their dad. In a way? It is the only way he will stay alive and not be able to harm himself. He is on a path to self destruct quickly if he keeps on going the way he is.
That was too good to last.
I went to bed last night and was almost asleep, and was woken up by him trying to climb in my window!!! I told him to get out, he would not. I could smell the booze on his breath, and he can be scary when he is drunk. He would not leave, so I called 911. He ripped the fan out of the window and threw it across the room. Police came, he was gone, said to call them if he came back.
About an hr or a little less later, I went outside to smoke and saw husband drive by and stop. I ran in and locked the windows and doors (I thought). A few minutes later I heard a noise from the back of the house. My window was not locked. husband was in the hallway. He was not threatening at this point, just kept wanting me to listen to him. I told him to leave several times, he would not, so I called 911 again. While I had the dispatcher on the line I got him out of the house. I turned before I shut the door and he was running back up to the door. I locked and deadbolted the door and he started to try to kick it in. The door almost gave and cracked, and then he left.
The police came and took photos and did catch him. He is charged with DUII, criminial mischief and criminal trespass. I had to take out the deadbolt to open the door, and the door is cracked and ruined. I have been shaking on and off ever since. I have filled out the restraining order paperwork and will turn it in tomorrow. I also am a witness to the grand jury as some of his charges are felonies. I have to appear tomorrow at 9:45, will turn in the restraining order paper work at the same time, and then I hope I can make my 11am appointment to get difficult child set up with wrap around.
It was a horrible night. difficult child was terrified last night, he slept with me and has not done that in ages. easy child was upset with me originally, but by morning she was over that and realized that her dad made his own choices. They both get upset with me randomly, and just upset randomly. I am glad that we are safe, he is in jail and will hopefully be there a while. The da called me and asked if I thought husband was suicidal. I said I was sure he was. However? There problem not mine.
I will not live the life we were, it will not happen. I don't care who I have to testify in front of, I will not be bullied and my children will not be tormented. I am done playing nice. Now I mean business, and it will not be pretty. I hate to think of the fallout when the kids figure out I testified against their dad. In a way? It is the only way he will stay alive and not be able to harm himself. He is on a path to self destruct quickly if he keeps on going the way he is.
