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ugh! difficult child's girlfriend's mom not handling this teen-sex thing well ...
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<blockquote data-quote="svengandhi" data-source="post: 603666" data-attributes="member: 3493"><p>When my son met his girlfriend, he was 17 and she was 14. The age difference is 2 years and 3 months. I told him that he could get arrested for statutory rape if he didn't wait till she was 16. It's not true, but I'm a lawyer and I made it sound convincing. They waited but even then, I wasn't happy. I called her mom to talk about it and she said "Oh, how sweet, they'll have beautiful children..." I freaked out and then my son told me she'd had her first kid at 19 (I was 31). After that, I told son that he needed to use protection because his girlfriend's mom was just not into caring about it. I bought him the big pack of Costco condoms and refill it when he says he needs more. He's now 23 and she's 20. He is my only sexually active child. My daughter, 21, is a virgin and so are the other boys (18, 17 and 14). </p><p></p><p>On a somewhat humorous note, a friend of theirs got a girl pregnant. She refused to have an abortion or give the baby up so their friend joined the military to support the baby. Son's girlfriend showed me the baby on FB. I asked what his name was and girlfriend, without missing a beat, said "Birth control." She's had a really hard life and doesn't want children. My daughter has had a relatively easy life and says she doesn't want children, either. All of my sons, on the other hand, say they want kids someday.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="svengandhi, post: 603666, member: 3493"] When my son met his girlfriend, he was 17 and she was 14. The age difference is 2 years and 3 months. I told him that he could get arrested for statutory rape if he didn't wait till she was 16. It's not true, but I'm a lawyer and I made it sound convincing. They waited but even then, I wasn't happy. I called her mom to talk about it and she said "Oh, how sweet, they'll have beautiful children..." I freaked out and then my son told me she'd had her first kid at 19 (I was 31). After that, I told son that he needed to use protection because his girlfriend's mom was just not into caring about it. I bought him the big pack of Costco condoms and refill it when he says he needs more. He's now 23 and she's 20. He is my only sexually active child. My daughter, 21, is a virgin and so are the other boys (18, 17 and 14). On a somewhat humorous note, a friend of theirs got a girl pregnant. She refused to have an abortion or give the baby up so their friend joined the military to support the baby. Son's girlfriend showed me the baby on FB. I asked what his name was and girlfriend, without missing a beat, said "Birth control." She's had a really hard life and doesn't want children. My daughter has had a relatively easy life and says she doesn't want children, either. All of my sons, on the other hand, say they want kids someday. [/QUOTE]
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