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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 411471"><p>Thanks Nomad. Yes the parents are married. I did email the mom and got a nice note back. She was away when this all happened and they did not want to upset her trip so did not tell her until she got back... so that is why the dad called me. In the past it was always the mom and I communicating. Like I said these are really good nice people... I am glad they called me rather than calling the police or going to court!!! I feel now that I have done everything I could and should....yet it still bothers me but there is really nothing I can do. I think it bothers me because in essense his blaming the old girlfriend for his problems is emotionally abusive on his part and also so ridiculous. She really is not to blame for his drug use. I mean really?? However I have passed on the info to the therapist and at this point there is nothing more to do about it. I think my still being bothered is where I have trouble detaching.... at least my son is not home so he doesnt' have to know I am still bothered. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 411471"] Thanks Nomad. Yes the parents are married. I did email the mom and got a nice note back. She was away when this all happened and they did not want to upset her trip so did not tell her until she got back... so that is why the dad called me. In the past it was always the mom and I communicating. Like I said these are really good nice people... I am glad they called me rather than calling the police or going to court!!! I feel now that I have done everything I could and should....yet it still bothers me but there is really nothing I can do. I think it bothers me because in essense his blaming the old girlfriend for his problems is emotionally abusive on his part and also so ridiculous. She really is not to blame for his drug use. I mean really?? However I have passed on the info to the therapist and at this point there is nothing more to do about it. I think my still being bothered is where I have trouble detaching.... at least my son is not home so he doesnt' have to know I am still bothered. :) [/QUOTE]
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