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Unbelievable mother in law and husband drama (Long, but what else is new with my threads?)
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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 476128" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p>Step, If mother in law is still able to, make sure beneficiary is listed on all accounts, and/or set everything up in a revocable living trust - assuming there's a house or retirement accounts and such. That way if she does turn for the worst, trustee takes over easy peasy.</p><p></p><p>YUP! husband is a ....... there really are no words to describe him. But in court? This so works to my advantage. I have a disinterested third party as a witness! I am no longer concerned about letting the judge be the final decision maker on custody or visitation. This is pretty damning.</p><p></p><p>I considered sending him a nastygram through that game site (he refused to give me his email address back in January), or even calling him and chewing his head off. I'm over that now. Instead I went subtle and changed my ID on the game site to "Really? I mean REALLY??????" and changed my location to "It was only 5 miles" Don't know if he has my messages archived or checks my account ever, but that tiny action made me feel much better <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>As far as I know, once a person is deceased, their SS# gets listed as deceased. If a creditor is stupid enough not to check or believe the reported status, I'm really not going to worry about it. I've got enough to deal with in this situation.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 476128, member: 11965"] Step, If mother in law is still able to, make sure beneficiary is listed on all accounts, and/or set everything up in a revocable living trust - assuming there's a house or retirement accounts and such. That way if she does turn for the worst, trustee takes over easy peasy. YUP! husband is a ....... there really are no words to describe him. But in court? This so works to my advantage. I have a disinterested third party as a witness! I am no longer concerned about letting the judge be the final decision maker on custody or visitation. This is pretty damning. I considered sending him a nastygram through that game site (he refused to give me his email address back in January), or even calling him and chewing his head off. I'm over that now. Instead I went subtle and changed my ID on the game site to "Really? I mean REALLY??????" and changed my location to "It was only 5 miles" Don't know if he has my messages archived or checks my account ever, but that tiny action made me feel much better :) As far as I know, once a person is deceased, their SS# gets listed as deceased. If a creditor is stupid enough not to check or believe the reported status, I'm really not going to worry about it. I've got enough to deal with in this situation. [/QUOTE]
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