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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 391175" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>toughlovin- as the sister and the mother of a difficult child (not the same difficult child, of course. We may live in OK but I am NOT my own Gma, lol!), it is MUCH easier to see the situation clearly from the sister perspective. I don't know why, but it really is.</p><p> </p><p>hex, WOW! Your difficult child is really terrible at manipulation!! Wiz is a LOT better than she is! I just hope he never decides to give lessons. joking, but only a bit, Know what I mean?? When Wiz was older it was only the fear of what I would do that kept him from reporting things to CPS. I told him from when he was little that if he called to say I was abusing him then he best be packed and ready to leave because he was leaving with the investigator - cause if I didn't abuse him before the call I might after. He also wouldn't have a place in our home again unless it was proven that abuse really happened. IF it was true, he would get help with us and live with us, if it was for any other reason, bye, enjoy your new family! He believed me. I actually had a friend who works for CPS suggest that warning to my kids. She saw a LOT of parents put through the ringer of false accusations so she did this with her own kids, and so did several of ehr coworkers.</p><p> </p><p>I am really amazed at how terrible your difficult child's attempts at manipulation are!!! ANd that they have not changed in years - you would think she would see they don't work and get better, woulcn't you? Trust a difficult child to not even get parental manipulation right, LOL!</p><p> </p><p>Your easy child is AWESOME!! I love the pics of mansions AND the "other daughter" approach! in my opinion very healthy ways to handle a tough situation!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 391175, member: 1233"] toughlovin- as the sister and the mother of a difficult child (not the same difficult child, of course. We may live in OK but I am NOT my own Gma, lol!), it is MUCH easier to see the situation clearly from the sister perspective. I don't know why, but it really is. hex, WOW! Your difficult child is really terrible at manipulation!! Wiz is a LOT better than she is! I just hope he never decides to give lessons. joking, but only a bit, Know what I mean?? When Wiz was older it was only the fear of what I would do that kept him from reporting things to CPS. I told him from when he was little that if he called to say I was abusing him then he best be packed and ready to leave because he was leaving with the investigator - cause if I didn't abuse him before the call I might after. He also wouldn't have a place in our home again unless it was proven that abuse really happened. IF it was true, he would get help with us and live with us, if it was for any other reason, bye, enjoy your new family! He believed me. I actually had a friend who works for CPS suggest that warning to my kids. She saw a LOT of parents put through the ringer of false accusations so she did this with her own kids, and so did several of ehr coworkers. I am really amazed at how terrible your difficult child's attempts at manipulation are!!! ANd that they have not changed in years - you would think she would see they don't work and get better, woulcn't you? Trust a difficult child to not even get parental manipulation right, LOL! Your easy child is AWESOME!! I love the pics of mansions AND the "other daughter" approach! in my opinion very healthy ways to handle a tough situation! [/QUOTE]
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