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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 320717" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>What is so annoying about this to me is that it could be accomplished. But whaen everything gets delegated to people lower on the totem pole, they only deal with things the typical way and don't want to pursue any other avenue. It might just be a vent that never gets sent to anyone, but I've already written a letter to PO, copying everyone else involved, and basicly saying in so many words- "here's the situation, here's what I'm being told, I'm not bringing the child home to the same situation we were in before this happened, I'm not moving to HI with all this unresolved, if I don't take this job I'm not in a position to do everything required of me, you all please figure it out and let me know what you decide is in his best interest so I can plan accordingly".</p><p></p><p>Susie, it isn't that I'm against tdocs or therapy. Really. I just happen to think that many are not providing good, adequate therapy and many way over-sell themselves. I have no insurance right now, cannot afford to pay for it out-of-pocket, and it can effect my clearance right now and the way things are handled with difficult child. Therefore, right now it is out of the question. I don't feel it is any major loss because the tdocs around here are **** compared to ones I've dealt with in the past so frankly, I have found them a waste of time who in some cases, do more harm than good. It's kind of like medications- they aren't always "take this- it cures it all". If you get a good one- it's great- but they aren't all good and I can't do it right now anyway. I am pulling on tecniques I learned from therapy in the past but that doesn't make the situation go away- ok I know I can't change the situation- I just want it resolved. OK??</p><p></p><p>Look how many people on here who are on medications and see a therapist are still frustrated and venting- does it always solve the problem? No. I'm not syaing that to be nasty- it's just an observation. </p><p></p><p>The bottom line issue that threw a glitch in this is that Department of Juvenile Justice is saying they can't go to the committee and ask for an early release without some "plan" from PO indicating that I am moving. PO is saying that he can't submit interstate paperwork until I have already moved. OK- I understand that. But, he can PLAN for a freaking move so that once I get the confirmation (assuming I do), Department of Juvenile Justice can go to the committee. But, it's not typical for PO to get paperwork ready until after the person has already moved so I guess this messes up his normal way of doing things. Arghhh.....</p><p></p><p>That's the main thing- but as far aas parole- it is beyond me why the director brought that up and acted like she could and would do something about it, only to just delegate it to someone who leaves it in the PO's hands. I think it goes bacak to GAL having our CSU people in the county convinced that if difficult child lives with me, he (we) need to remain under their supervision. But, the Department of Juvenile Justice people see that this is a big part of the problem- they just apparently don't say that to the county people for some reason I don't understand so the judge only hears this one side and not the other, from anyone but me.</p><p></p><p>No offense ,but I don't see why I need a therapist because I find this frustrating and infuriating.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 320717, member: 3699"] What is so annoying about this to me is that it could be accomplished. But whaen everything gets delegated to people lower on the totem pole, they only deal with things the typical way and don't want to pursue any other avenue. It might just be a vent that never gets sent to anyone, but I've already written a letter to PO, copying everyone else involved, and basicly saying in so many words- "here's the situation, here's what I'm being told, I'm not bringing the child home to the same situation we were in before this happened, I'm not moving to HI with all this unresolved, if I don't take this job I'm not in a position to do everything required of me, you all please figure it out and let me know what you decide is in his best interest so I can plan accordingly". Susie, it isn't that I'm against tdocs or therapy. Really. I just happen to think that many are not providing good, adequate therapy and many way over-sell themselves. I have no insurance right now, cannot afford to pay for it out-of-pocket, and it can effect my clearance right now and the way things are handled with difficult child. Therefore, right now it is out of the question. I don't feel it is any major loss because the tdocs around here are **** compared to ones I've dealt with in the past so frankly, I have found them a waste of time who in some cases, do more harm than good. It's kind of like medications- they aren't always "take this- it cures it all". If you get a good one- it's great- but they aren't all good and I can't do it right now anyway. I am pulling on tecniques I learned from therapy in the past but that doesn't make the situation go away- ok I know I can't change the situation- I just want it resolved. OK?? Look how many people on here who are on medications and see a therapist are still frustrated and venting- does it always solve the problem? No. I'm not syaing that to be nasty- it's just an observation. The bottom line issue that threw a glitch in this is that Department of Juvenile Justice is saying they can't go to the committee and ask for an early release without some "plan" from PO indicating that I am moving. PO is saying that he can't submit interstate paperwork until I have already moved. OK- I understand that. But, he can PLAN for a freaking move so that once I get the confirmation (assuming I do), Department of Juvenile Justice can go to the committee. But, it's not typical for PO to get paperwork ready until after the person has already moved so I guess this messes up his normal way of doing things. Arghhh..... That's the main thing- but as far aas parole- it is beyond me why the director brought that up and acted like she could and would do something about it, only to just delegate it to someone who leaves it in the PO's hands. I think it goes bacak to GAL having our CSU people in the county convinced that if difficult child lives with me, he (we) need to remain under their supervision. But, the Department of Juvenile Justice people see that this is a big part of the problem- they just apparently don't say that to the county people for some reason I don't understand so the judge only hears this one side and not the other, from anyone but me. No offense ,but I don't see why I need a therapist because I find this frustrating and infuriating. [/QUOTE]
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