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<blockquote data-quote="Janna" data-source="post: 21260" data-attributes="member: 2737"><p>The other thread was getting so long LOL! Thank you everyone for replies and thoughts and good wishes. Yesterday was a very, very bad day.</p><p></p><p>I received a call this morning from my attorney, who had a conference call with difficult child 2's attorney and the county's attorney. According to mine, all 3 lawyers were appalled and disgusted with foster mother's behaviors. She was not formally invited to this meeting, and the attorney's are wondering why she was there.</p><p></p><p>I, personally, believe she was there because of the CPS worker. Revenge, spite, what have you. Immature, young girl, angry at me for pointing out her mistakes and neglect to the court on several occasions. Although I have asked for a new caseworker and to have her removed, she hasn't been, and it's pretty clear she hates me. That's fine.</p><p></p><p>Anyway, SUPPOSEDLY (all according to my lawyer), difficult child 2 and his counsel had a little chit chat after the meeting, away from foster mother. Supposedly, difficult child 2 was half frightened to say anything in that room with an erratic, out of control foster parent ranting and raving. WHY IS HE WITH HER THEN? That's for another day.</p><p></p><p>However, difficult child 2 insisted to the parties that matter that he still wants to reunify. He will do counseling. He will do whatever it takes. </p><p></p><p>This all sounds great, but, then I have my worries still. </p><p></p><p>He is still a manipulator. He's an abuse crier. Yes, he's done it to SO, he's done it to the previous fosters. What's to say he won't do it again?</p><p></p><p>We'll need interventions and outlets. My attorney has absolutely assured me we are still working on reunification.</p><p></p><p>Court is March 6 @ 2.</p><p></p><p>He won't come home that day, almost sure. I foresee them ordering family counseling again. Doing that until school is out. Then the possible reunification then, should things progress.</p><p></p><p>However, I cannot see working on anything with him in the current home. He will have to be taken out. After yesterday, I will not forgive, forget or agree to work with this woman. I am not a forgiving person. I don't care who told her what about me, or what she thinks she knows, or what she has been told. She's a psycho and I do not have to put up with her. She was disrespectful, hateful and nasty and in no way, shape or form will I ever tolerate being in the same room with her, ever again.</p><p></p><p>So, we will have to see how this progresses. But I feel better knowing my son did stick up for what he wants yesterday. That hurt me more than anything.</p><p></p><p>So thanks everyone. Any suggestions for interventions appreciated. Keep in mind, we can't really get services out here. I have tried for things like advocates, big brothers, etc, for Dylan and gotten nothing. NOBODY is willing to come to my house, we're too far out.</p><p></p><p>Janna</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Janna, post: 21260, member: 2737"] The other thread was getting so long LOL! Thank you everyone for replies and thoughts and good wishes. Yesterday was a very, very bad day. I received a call this morning from my attorney, who had a conference call with difficult child 2's attorney and the county's attorney. According to mine, all 3 lawyers were appalled and disgusted with foster mother's behaviors. She was not formally invited to this meeting, and the attorney's are wondering why she was there. I, personally, believe she was there because of the CPS worker. Revenge, spite, what have you. Immature, young girl, angry at me for pointing out her mistakes and neglect to the court on several occasions. Although I have asked for a new caseworker and to have her removed, she hasn't been, and it's pretty clear she hates me. That's fine. Anyway, SUPPOSEDLY (all according to my lawyer), difficult child 2 and his counsel had a little chit chat after the meeting, away from foster mother. Supposedly, difficult child 2 was half frightened to say anything in that room with an erratic, out of control foster parent ranting and raving. WHY IS HE WITH HER THEN? That's for another day. However, difficult child 2 insisted to the parties that matter that he still wants to reunify. He will do counseling. He will do whatever it takes. This all sounds great, but, then I have my worries still. He is still a manipulator. He's an abuse crier. Yes, he's done it to SO, he's done it to the previous fosters. What's to say he won't do it again? We'll need interventions and outlets. My attorney has absolutely assured me we are still working on reunification. Court is March 6 @ 2. He won't come home that day, almost sure. I foresee them ordering family counseling again. Doing that until school is out. Then the possible reunification then, should things progress. However, I cannot see working on anything with him in the current home. He will have to be taken out. After yesterday, I will not forgive, forget or agree to work with this woman. I am not a forgiving person. I don't care who told her what about me, or what she thinks she knows, or what she has been told. She's a psycho and I do not have to put up with her. She was disrespectful, hateful and nasty and in no way, shape or form will I ever tolerate being in the same room with her, ever again. So, we will have to see how this progresses. But I feel better knowing my son did stick up for what he wants yesterday. That hurt me more than anything. So thanks everyone. Any suggestions for interventions appreciated. Keep in mind, we can't really get services out here. I have tried for things like advocates, big brothers, etc, for Dylan and gotten nothing. NOBODY is willing to come to my house, we're too far out. Janna [/QUOTE]
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