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<blockquote data-quote="paperplate" data-source="post: 578209" data-attributes="member: 15831"><p>Hypervigilent is exactly what it is. Like one of the reasons I started on this board was due to DS13. And alot of his behavior is explained by the whole situation. When I spend 90% of my day directing husband's anger towards me, DS13 wound up getting away with quite a bit. If he did something wrong, I was literally forced to take the explosion, simply to keep DS13 out of it, then DS13 walked away with no consequences EVER! It was like, no matter what, he knew mom would step in, so there was no punishment. Now with husband gone, I've been trying so HARD to focus on DS13's behavior, now that I do NOT have to focus on husband. And we're making progress...baby steps. Slowly, he is starting to see that HE is now responsible for his actions. It's been a little crazy, but it's actually been strange to see his face now. With the insane guy gone, DS13 now has to do the time....I can focus on HIS behavior now. The first 3 days were AWFUL!!!! But now, he's starting to get it. I just have to maintain consistancy and not lose my marbles! LOL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="paperplate, post: 578209, member: 15831"] Hypervigilent is exactly what it is. Like one of the reasons I started on this board was due to DS13. And alot of his behavior is explained by the whole situation. When I spend 90% of my day directing husband's anger towards me, DS13 wound up getting away with quite a bit. If he did something wrong, I was literally forced to take the explosion, simply to keep DS13 out of it, then DS13 walked away with no consequences EVER! It was like, no matter what, he knew mom would step in, so there was no punishment. Now with husband gone, I've been trying so HARD to focus on DS13's behavior, now that I do NOT have to focus on husband. And we're making progress...baby steps. Slowly, he is starting to see that HE is now responsible for his actions. It's been a little crazy, but it's actually been strange to see his face now. With the insane guy gone, DS13 now has to do the time....I can focus on HIS behavior now. The first 3 days were AWFUL!!!! But now, he's starting to get it. I just have to maintain consistancy and not lose my marbles! LOL [/QUOTE]
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