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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 407295" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Star you make a good point. </p><p></p><p>Crazymom...I never would have thought you could scrape them. Gosh Im living under a rock...lol. See...obviously not an addict...lol. Wouldnt even occur to me. </p><p></p><p>Back to Star. I do think that Tony gets mighty resentful of me sometimes. I know he does. Some of the things that come out of that mans mouth make me so mad. I really dont think he gets my issues one bit. He has gone to therapy with me a few times and when he talks about me it is obvious he basically thinks I am taking too many medications and being lazy. His attitude is he works and I dont. Never mind that I do my best to attempt to do what I can around here when no one else lifts a darned finger. For me its like shoveling snow with a spoon while its still snowing. </p><p></p><p>He truly resents that I am home while he goes to work but I also resent that he can go to work. I would give anything to be able to work again. He doesnt understand that. He somehow thinks I have a grand old time sitting home sleeping all day. Well I sleep half the day because I am up most of the night for various reasons including him. He kicks me constantly at night and with only a queen bed, I cant get away from him. He literally spreads completely all over the bed so I only have a tiny piece and then he is kicking and thrashing. He has horrible restless legs. Then of course there is Mandy and Cory who are complete night owls and they come and go at all hours of the night with cars in the yard which keep me up too. Doors opening and closing. Them yelling. I cannot wait till they leave. I am trying to instill a midnight curfew because there are times that I actually do get to sleep and then some idiot comes to the house and wakes me up. Whenever anyone comes to the house my dog barks like all get out so there is no sleeping through that. </p><p></p><p>Of course, Tony thinks I should have everything done in the house every day. Dinner done, kitchen clean, clothes washed and put away. Yeah right. Im lucky if I can manage to actually cook a meal and get the dishes washed. I have a huge pile of clothes that is a mountain high that needs to get gone through. I have no idea how we get so many clothes. Probably because if we cant find something we go buy new. And with all the stuff stuffed in the laundry we can never find anything. I try to organize but its a disaster because no one will cooperate. I have bought so many laundry baskets and asked that we use them to put dirty clothes in for each of us. Even just me, tony and keyana...and then each of us can do our clothes...the others be damned. That I will make sure those baskets get done if he will just make sure he puts those clothes in each basket...dirty first, then when clean, back into the basket so I can fold and put away. Nope...cant do that. Takes dirty off and throws them either where they fall or on the floor in front of the washer...sigh. Then everyones stuff gets mixed up. </p><p></p><p>I have basically given up but then I get stupid remarks and blamed. Its a never ending cycle with me ending up feeling useless and bad.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 407295, member: 1514"] Star you make a good point. Crazymom...I never would have thought you could scrape them. Gosh Im living under a rock...lol. See...obviously not an addict...lol. Wouldnt even occur to me. Back to Star. I do think that Tony gets mighty resentful of me sometimes. I know he does. Some of the things that come out of that mans mouth make me so mad. I really dont think he gets my issues one bit. He has gone to therapy with me a few times and when he talks about me it is obvious he basically thinks I am taking too many medications and being lazy. His attitude is he works and I dont. Never mind that I do my best to attempt to do what I can around here when no one else lifts a darned finger. For me its like shoveling snow with a spoon while its still snowing. He truly resents that I am home while he goes to work but I also resent that he can go to work. I would give anything to be able to work again. He doesnt understand that. He somehow thinks I have a grand old time sitting home sleeping all day. Well I sleep half the day because I am up most of the night for various reasons including him. He kicks me constantly at night and with only a queen bed, I cant get away from him. He literally spreads completely all over the bed so I only have a tiny piece and then he is kicking and thrashing. He has horrible restless legs. Then of course there is Mandy and Cory who are complete night owls and they come and go at all hours of the night with cars in the yard which keep me up too. Doors opening and closing. Them yelling. I cannot wait till they leave. I am trying to instill a midnight curfew because there are times that I actually do get to sleep and then some idiot comes to the house and wakes me up. Whenever anyone comes to the house my dog barks like all get out so there is no sleeping through that. Of course, Tony thinks I should have everything done in the house every day. Dinner done, kitchen clean, clothes washed and put away. Yeah right. Im lucky if I can manage to actually cook a meal and get the dishes washed. I have a huge pile of clothes that is a mountain high that needs to get gone through. I have no idea how we get so many clothes. Probably because if we cant find something we go buy new. And with all the stuff stuffed in the laundry we can never find anything. I try to organize but its a disaster because no one will cooperate. I have bought so many laundry baskets and asked that we use them to put dirty clothes in for each of us. Even just me, tony and keyana...and then each of us can do our clothes...the others be damned. That I will make sure those baskets get done if he will just make sure he puts those clothes in each basket...dirty first, then when clean, back into the basket so I can fold and put away. Nope...cant do that. Takes dirty off and throws them either where they fall or on the floor in front of the washer...sigh. Then everyones stuff gets mixed up. I have basically given up but then I get stupid remarks and blamed. Its a never ending cycle with me ending up feeling useless and bad. [/QUOTE]
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