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<blockquote data-quote="DavidH" data-source="post: 132981"><p>Your all so kind... I will say again... If I had not found thsi site and you ALL I would have pulled Justin and I am sure been back in the same boat we were in before his placement... HUGE changes in the 3 months since I found you guys.. you all need to know you give real strength to those of us with no support out here! thanks again</p><p> </p><p>to answer some.. the Mom issue .. I will no longer ever try to get her to be a part of his life any longer.. it will be her doing on her own and if she chooses to be as she has been for 15 years almost she will not be happy with who she meets as he will want nothing to do with her I am sure... </p><p> </p><p>the bigger issue is helping him with the loss... he still in a way thinks I am to blame.. (and that is fine for now) so the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) said it is almost going to be like greif therapy and they want to make sure they do it right.. at least start.. as I am sure the family therapy will include this issue once he is released from the Residential Treatment Center (RTC). I also think in a year or so he is going to come to accept it and not dwell on it as he has... and this is what I tried to warn his mother about... there will be a day he figures it out... and you will not like what he figures out and nothing you say will change his mind.. </p><p> </p><p>I am really kind of out of it.. except to be the hug he needs when it hurts his little heart</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DavidH, post: 132981"] Your all so kind... I will say again... If I had not found thsi site and you ALL I would have pulled Justin and I am sure been back in the same boat we were in before his placement... HUGE changes in the 3 months since I found you guys.. you all need to know you give real strength to those of us with no support out here! thanks again to answer some.. the Mom issue .. I will no longer ever try to get her to be a part of his life any longer.. it will be her doing on her own and if she chooses to be as she has been for 15 years almost she will not be happy with who she meets as he will want nothing to do with her I am sure... the bigger issue is helping him with the loss... he still in a way thinks I am to blame.. (and that is fine for now) so the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) said it is almost going to be like greif therapy and they want to make sure they do it right.. at least start.. as I am sure the family therapy will include this issue once he is released from the Residential Treatment Center (RTC). I also think in a year or so he is going to come to accept it and not dwell on it as he has... and this is what I tried to warn his mother about... there will be a day he figures it out... and you will not like what he figures out and nothing you say will change his mind.. I am really kind of out of it.. except to be the hug he needs when it hurts his little heart [/QUOTE]
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