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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 247792" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>BBK, Sometimes we never know why our kids do the things they do. When that is the case we just have to bring it to the therapist and hope that with work our difficult child's will learn whythe problem behavior is not good for them. If Tink was viewing porn she could have seen anything. I strongly suggest you get a program such as Wisechoice that will not allow your computer to go to any of these sites. That will prevent future viewing. The sexual acting out needs to be addressed not avoided. Do it with the therapist's assistance. You may want to give her a head's up on it before your next session.</p><p> </p><p>As far as your feelings of inadequacy; in my opinion you need to start loving yourself more and forgive your weaknesses. All humans have thier weaknesses. That is why we all need support and validation. The key is to identify what those weaknesses are and get help with all things that pertain to that given area. </p><p> </p><p>Remember your Tink is only 8. Some of us vetrans have been dealing with difficult child's and their behaviors for twenty or more years. We all had to learn how to be strong. When to engage and when to retreat. It is a process and we all are on a learning curve. (((HUGS))) -RM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 247792, member: 2315"] BBK, Sometimes we never know why our kids do the things they do. When that is the case we just have to bring it to the therapist and hope that with work our difficult child's will learn whythe problem behavior is not good for them. If Tink was viewing porn she could have seen anything. I strongly suggest you get a program such as Wisechoice that will not allow your computer to go to any of these sites. That will prevent future viewing. The sexual acting out needs to be addressed not avoided. Do it with the therapist's assistance. You may want to give her a head's up on it before your next session. As far as your feelings of inadequacy; in my opinion you need to start loving yourself more and forgive your weaknesses. All humans have thier weaknesses. That is why we all need support and validation. The key is to identify what those weaknesses are and get help with all things that pertain to that given area. Remember your Tink is only 8. Some of us vetrans have been dealing with difficult child's and their behaviors for twenty or more years. We all had to learn how to be strong. When to engage and when to retreat. It is a process and we all are on a learning curve. (((HUGS))) -RM [/QUOTE]
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