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Update re: court/bio father
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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 451159" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>Sweetheart - first things first. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/hugs.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":hugs:" title="hugs :hugs:" data-shortname=":hugs:" /></p><p></p><p>OK. From my point of view? I don't know every single detail, of course. But I do know enough to say - you probably NEED to break down.</p><p></p><p>Crying randomly is okay. I mean, you held it in for so, so long - and now, now finally something is to be done about it - it's a relief! I find that I can remain in control, doing "well", through a crisis - no matter what it is - and when it's over? I fall apart. Emergencies? No problem. Afterward? Ohhhhh, boy.</p><p></p><p>Honestly, I think you've almost done <em>too</em> well. You're a super strong person. Give yourself permission to be "weak". Because a blade of grass may be stepped on briefly, but in a prolonged windstorm, it's the oak that falls. So weakness may not be.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 451159, member: 6705"] Sweetheart - first things first. :hugs: OK. From my point of view? I don't know every single detail, of course. But I do know enough to say - you probably NEED to break down. Crying randomly is okay. I mean, you held it in for so, so long - and now, now finally something is to be done about it - it's a relief! I find that I can remain in control, doing "well", through a crisis - no matter what it is - and when it's over? I fall apart. Emergencies? No problem. Afterward? Ohhhhh, boy. Honestly, I think you've almost done [I]too[/I] well. You're a super strong person. Give yourself permission to be "weak". Because a blade of grass may be stepped on briefly, but in a prolonged windstorm, it's the oak that falls. So weakness may not be. [/QUOTE]
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