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Update re: court/bio father
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<blockquote data-quote="skeeter" data-source="post: 451272" data-attributes="member: 439"><p>Unfortunately, the way our courts (and I'm assuming yours too) are set up, the victim continues to BE the victim while the proceedings are in progress.</p><p></p><p>Please make sure to take care of yourself. You have a lot of anger (justified) at not just your sperm donor, but at those that helped cover up all his ugliness all these years. You may need help channeling that anger. It's ok to ask for and get help. Some people can't handle these things, so while it's sad, it may be best to figure you won't have contact with them (old school thinking that you and the others "asked" for it).</p><p></p><p>But YOU know that you and the other victims are doing the right thing. Sometimes the right thing hurt horribly. But it must be done.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="skeeter, post: 451272, member: 439"] Unfortunately, the way our courts (and I'm assuming yours too) are set up, the victim continues to BE the victim while the proceedings are in progress. Please make sure to take care of yourself. You have a lot of anger (justified) at not just your sperm donor, but at those that helped cover up all his ugliness all these years. You may need help channeling that anger. It's ok to ask for and get help. Some people can't handle these things, so while it's sad, it may be best to figure you won't have contact with them (old school thinking that you and the others "asked" for it). But YOU know that you and the other victims are doing the right thing. Sometimes the right thing hurt horribly. But it must be done. [/QUOTE]
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