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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 235321" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I think an extended psychiatric hospital stay or Residential Treatment Center (RTC) stay would be an excellent idea. No matter how expensive the outpatient therapy, it won't make your home safe. And if your son ends up tying you up and hurting you, he will have to live with the guilt for the rest of his life. If he ties you up and ends up killing you he will not only have to live with the guilt, he will not have you to advocate for him or find help for him. Chances are he would rot behind bars with-o getting any of the help he needs.</p><p></p><p>I think the idea of having someone tie up your son to show him what it is about is the worst idea I have ever heard of. </p><p></p><p>Rotsne, you have no idea what goes on here in the US. Many of us have freely said we don't know what goes on in your country and we have tried to be supportive of you. But the things you say are HURTFUL. And some suggestions, like having someone tie up this child, are downright dangerous. You have NO CLUE what goes on in RTCs and psychiatric hospitals here in the US. </p><p></p><p>While there may be some parts of the US who engage in domination, some people in the US, it certainly is NOT mainstream and it is NOT what learner wants to teach her son.</p><p></p><p>Learner, get that alarm necklace, and do everything you can to have your son placed out of your home, even if it ends up beign in a group home. You simply MUST be safe.</p><p></p><p>If you doubt that this is serious, go to a domestic violence shelter and speak with a therapist there. They can help you see how serious this is, and how dangerous this is. I would be willing to bet $$ that your son has tied up other people, and that he is building up to tying up you again.</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 235321, member: 1233"] I think an extended psychiatric hospital stay or Residential Treatment Center (RTC) stay would be an excellent idea. No matter how expensive the outpatient therapy, it won't make your home safe. And if your son ends up tying you up and hurting you, he will have to live with the guilt for the rest of his life. If he ties you up and ends up killing you he will not only have to live with the guilt, he will not have you to advocate for him or find help for him. Chances are he would rot behind bars with-o getting any of the help he needs. I think the idea of having someone tie up your son to show him what it is about is the worst idea I have ever heard of. Rotsne, you have no idea what goes on here in the US. Many of us have freely said we don't know what goes on in your country and we have tried to be supportive of you. But the things you say are HURTFUL. And some suggestions, like having someone tie up this child, are downright dangerous. You have NO CLUE what goes on in RTCs and psychiatric hospitals here in the US. While there may be some parts of the US who engage in domination, some people in the US, it certainly is NOT mainstream and it is NOT what learner wants to teach her son. Learner, get that alarm necklace, and do everything you can to have your son placed out of your home, even if it ends up beign in a group home. You simply MUST be safe. If you doubt that this is serious, go to a domestic violence shelter and speak with a therapist there. They can help you see how serious this is, and how dangerous this is. I would be willing to bet $$ that your son has tied up other people, and that he is building up to tying up you again. I am so sorry. [/QUOTE]
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