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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 247348" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>The insurance coverage is great news!</p><p> </p><p>As your cyber friend I am going to share what I think is important for you to remember...even if it doesn't sound as supportive as I truly am, lol.</p><p> </p><p>First and foremost I truly admire your advocacy. Secondly I am concerned that the cumulative stress and isolation during crisis "may" be diverting your attention from the true goal. Your goal is to get the best treatment placement possible for your son. You have qualified medical experts who totally agree that he is not well AND they support you all the way in your goal. <em>Do not focus on the PO and do not plan on how you can identify her as the loser that she appears to be. </em>The PO is not the person on trial. You will not be allowed (nor, in my humble opinion, should you try) to replace her or any other government employee. Surely your focus has to be PRO placement and not CON probation office.</p><p> </p><p>I understand your stance but having been to Court <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> many many times I absolutely know that your son's best interests are for you to focus your energies on his future. Furthermore I believe it is "normal" for your son to be highly anxious. You are a grown adult and you are highly anxious. Dealing with "the system" triggers anxiety. At your visit I would not try to dissuade your son. I would just reiterate how much you love him and hope that he will benefit from his future care.</p><p> </p><p>Try to exhale occasionally between now and Monday. I am sending caring supportive thoughts and a few prayers your way. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 247348, member: 35"] The insurance coverage is great news! As your cyber friend I am going to share what I think is important for you to remember...even if it doesn't sound as supportive as I truly am, lol. First and foremost I truly admire your advocacy. Secondly I am concerned that the cumulative stress and isolation during crisis "may" be diverting your attention from the true goal. Your goal is to get the best treatment placement possible for your son. You have qualified medical experts who totally agree that he is not well AND they support you all the way in your goal. [I]Do not focus on the PO and do not plan on how you can identify her as the loser that she appears to be. [/I]The PO is not the person on trial. You will not be allowed (nor, in my humble opinion, should you try) to replace her or any other government employee. Surely your focus has to be PRO placement and not CON probation office. I understand your stance but having been to Court :frowny: many many times I absolutely know that your son's best interests are for you to focus your energies on his future. Furthermore I believe it is "normal" for your son to be highly anxious. You are a grown adult and you are highly anxious. Dealing with "the system" triggers anxiety. At your visit I would not try to dissuade your son. I would just reiterate how much you love him and hope that he will benefit from his future care. Try to exhale occasionally between now and Monday. I am sending caring supportive thoughts and a few prayers your way. DDD [/QUOTE]
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