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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 379957" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Aw hon I'm so sorry. difficult child has had soooooo much to deal with all at once, as have all of you.</p><p></p><p>Nichole's bff was oddly the same way with her parents. I think honestly somehow they actually trained her to be their caregiver when in fact it should have been the other way around. The girl has spina bifida and several other serious birth defects that keeps her health on a very fine line, yet soon as she was old enough she was waiting on them hand and foot, caring for the house like an adult.....then when old enough to work was the only one working full time while trying to go to high school. The girl has amazing strength if only she'd come to realize it. I was worried she'd never break free from her parents. But recently she made the break, her son (she's had another child after losing the 1st one prematurely) was her motivation. She still has a long way to go.....but at least she is no longer basically a slave to her drug addicted parents whims. But I noticed with her it was so very difficult for her to break free from the role they'd taught her. It was the only family dynamic she knew until she started to have sleep overs here with Nichole. </p><p></p><p>Hopefully girlfriend will make up her mind one way or the other soon. This is making an already very difficult time all the more difficult.</p><p></p><p>(((hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 379957, member: 84"] Aw hon I'm so sorry. difficult child has had soooooo much to deal with all at once, as have all of you. Nichole's bff was oddly the same way with her parents. I think honestly somehow they actually trained her to be their caregiver when in fact it should have been the other way around. The girl has spina bifida and several other serious birth defects that keeps her health on a very fine line, yet soon as she was old enough she was waiting on them hand and foot, caring for the house like an adult.....then when old enough to work was the only one working full time while trying to go to high school. The girl has amazing strength if only she'd come to realize it. I was worried she'd never break free from her parents. But recently she made the break, her son (she's had another child after losing the 1st one prematurely) was her motivation. She still has a long way to go.....but at least she is no longer basically a slave to her drug addicted parents whims. But I noticed with her it was so very difficult for her to break free from the role they'd taught her. It was the only family dynamic she knew until she started to have sleep overs here with Nichole. Hopefully girlfriend will make up her mind one way or the other soon. This is making an already very difficult time all the more difficult. (((hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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