HI everyone: I need advice again-my 19 year old pot smoker and husband myself and my 24 year old and his girlfriend are supposed to go on vacation this week-however my 19 year old who is to make payments to his father for insurance and cell phone and fines we paid for getting caught with pot has stopped making payments again my husband and him have been fighting again about this and my husband does not want him to go on vacation however I do not want to leave him alone in our home -he hangs around with all these kids who have been arrested for drugs and I am afraid they will be at our house stealing stuff. I also do not want to exclude him from the vacation plans, but I am not sure he can go a whole week without smoking pot -I also cleaned his room this weekend and I found these little tiny plastic bags with pictures of bats on them-no pills or anything in them-what is this stuff???? I am torn what to do??? If I make him stay home then I will be worried while I on vacation about him and our home --if he is with us and sneaks some drugs with him and gets caught what do I do then??? We are going to another State for the vacation so not sure of their state penalties-the vacation is paid for already with the exception of meals----either way I feel like I lose if I take him with us -it may be a bad time-if I leave him home also will have a bad time being worried about him-any advise????