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<blockquote data-quote="graceupongrace" data-source="post: 398370" data-attributes="member: 7371"><p>Jena, raising a difficult child requires superhuman efforts, but unfortunately we're only human. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/sigh.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":sigh:" title="sigh :sigh:" data-shortname=":sigh:" /> I hope that the family-based approach in Oregon includes strategies for getting your whole family well. Don't be afraid to tell the docs there that you need a way to deal with your own health issues, and to nurture your relationships with husband and easy child. difficult child is so enmeshed with you that it's squeezing out your other relationships. She needs to learn to separate from you in a healthy way. That doesn't mean you love her any less, it just means you're enabling her to become her own person apart from you -- which it sounds like she has been unwilling (or unable) to do. Praying for all of you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="graceupongrace, post: 398370, member: 7371"] Jena, raising a difficult child requires superhuman efforts, but unfortunately we're only human. :sigh: I hope that the family-based approach in Oregon includes strategies for getting your whole family well. Don't be afraid to tell the docs there that you need a way to deal with your own health issues, and to nurture your relationships with husband and easy child. difficult child is so enmeshed with you that it's squeezing out your other relationships. She needs to learn to separate from you in a healthy way. That doesn't mean you love her any less, it just means you're enabling her to become her own person apart from you -- which it sounds like she has been unwilling (or unable) to do. Praying for all of you. [/QUOTE]
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