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<blockquote data-quote="HaoZi" data-source="post: 400608"><p>I have spent a lot of time online playing various games and I know how easy it is for this to happen over time. I've seen one fellow gamer wreck a number of marriages by herself because she played the victim card, and even when caught out some of these guys still want her. I don't get it. I've seen things go horribly wrong in other ways, too, when marriages fell apart because of time spent on the computer even when it was innocent.</p><p></p><p>It could easily have started as something like just him venting in general and finding a sympathetic ear. It can easily go from there to something more, too. Nip it in the bud and find out if he was just looking for a friend first, because if he was more actively looking for something more... you know how that goes. I've also seen people that use online type things to "spice up" their own relationships, some are open with their partners about it, some aren't. I do have platonic friends we say "I love you" to each other, but we also know it's as friends and there is no attraction or anything there, and I don't try hiding it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="HaoZi, post: 400608"] I have spent a lot of time online playing various games and I know how easy it is for this to happen over time. I've seen one fellow gamer wreck a number of marriages by herself because she played the victim card, and even when caught out some of these guys still want her. I don't get it. I've seen things go horribly wrong in other ways, too, when marriages fell apart because of time spent on the computer even when it was innocent. It could easily have started as something like just him venting in general and finding a sympathetic ear. It can easily go from there to something more, too. Nip it in the bud and find out if he was just looking for a friend first, because if he was more actively looking for something more... you know how that goes. I've also seen people that use online type things to "spice up" their own relationships, some are open with their partners about it, some aren't. I do have platonic friends we say "I love you" to each other, but we also know it's as friends and there is no attraction or anything there, and I don't try hiding it. [/QUOTE]
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