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<blockquote data-quote="Mamaof5" data-source="post: 400645"><p>What do I want to do. I don't know yet because I don't have concrete proof just yet. I will within a week or two so I have to play it "normal". You know how incredibly hard that is? I just want to kick his head in right now and I can't because I can't go accusing without that concrete proof. Technically, I'm not actually snooping for the FB thing because we both gave permission to see whatever is there by saying here's my password use it if you want. The keylogger, I understand is definitely snooping but he's leaving my no choice when he clears the history of yahoo chat and starts deleting PMs and emails.</p><p></p><p>I just happened to catch that one this morning from last night. Probably because he purposely ignored it (it seems) after reading it. All other ones I've caught he's always answered back within minutes (this is before he started deleting them just before Xmas. I think I scared him when he figured it out that I was using that "permission" but still did not change passwords at all).</p><p></p><p>I'd like NOT to be a divorce statistic. I'd like to believe him but this other woman makes that difficult and I know it's both on them. Not just her. If it's true they both will own their actions and words. I want to make him pay for it in the worse way possible but I will be civil. Right now I need proof, next confrontation, then ultimatum and after that. Possible counselling...maybe IF he admits, apologizes and agrees. If he doesn't agree to it then it's out the door with his sorry ****. This is a deal breaker for me honestly so I'm winging it by the seat of my pants to be truthful. I just never thought I'd be THAT woman saying "Oh My God, he may be cheating on me".</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mamaof5, post: 400645"] What do I want to do. I don't know yet because I don't have concrete proof just yet. I will within a week or two so I have to play it "normal". You know how incredibly hard that is? I just want to kick his head in right now and I can't because I can't go accusing without that concrete proof. Technically, I'm not actually snooping for the FB thing because we both gave permission to see whatever is there by saying here's my password use it if you want. The keylogger, I understand is definitely snooping but he's leaving my no choice when he clears the history of yahoo chat and starts deleting PMs and emails. I just happened to catch that one this morning from last night. Probably because he purposely ignored it (it seems) after reading it. All other ones I've caught he's always answered back within minutes (this is before he started deleting them just before Xmas. I think I scared him when he figured it out that I was using that "permission" but still did not change passwords at all). I'd like NOT to be a divorce statistic. I'd like to believe him but this other woman makes that difficult and I know it's both on them. Not just her. If it's true they both will own their actions and words. I want to make him pay for it in the worse way possible but I will be civil. Right now I need proof, next confrontation, then ultimatum and after that. Possible counselling...maybe IF he admits, apologizes and agrees. If he doesn't agree to it then it's out the door with his sorry ****. This is a deal breaker for me honestly so I'm winging it by the seat of my pants to be truthful. I just never thought I'd be THAT woman saying "Oh My God, he may be cheating on me". [/QUOTE]
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