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Want to beat this kid, I hate her!!!
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<blockquote data-quote="helpangel" data-source="post: 620759" data-attributes="member: 7170"><p>Thanks everyone for the support, wow I broke all my rules for dealing with my difficult child's when made that post... verbal attacks about the kid not the behavior, name calling so glad I typed it instead of flat out yelling it at her. </p><p></p><p>I had been doing so good at mentally detaching from the drama, then saw my kid seriously harm another kid who didn't deserve it and snapped. I'm just so glad I chose typing over going to jail last night because everything in me just wanted to hit her!</p><p></p><p>This whole thing with youngest having friends over is new yesterday was first time she has invited a friend to hang out for a couple hours, yes there have been kids in for introduction then they split but never to just hang out here.</p><p></p><p>I'm kind of glad Angel's siblings both threw the book at her last night because today Rachel had a boy over. Not her boyfriend his best friend (when I heard of this a couple days ago insisted she invite boyfriend also even if I need to transport to make it happen) </p><p></p><p>Anyway Angel knew she was dangerously close to me starting eviction process so she stayed in her room the entire time. boyfriend didn't come over just friend but it went fine they had lunch, played Wii & then lego's.</p><p></p><p>One thing I found strange is the mom came in to meet me, verify adult here and kind of check me out; I could understand that if they were 12yo but this boy is gonna be 18 in a couple months. </p><p></p><p>I thought the girls parents were out of line trying to choose all her friends and put those restrictions on an 18yo, but after meeting that mom today wondering if there is a different rule book for parents of difficult child's?</p><p></p><p>I thought teens you're suppose to give them enough rope to hang themselves with and only step in before they actually choke the life out of themselves or ask for help; wondering at this point if I'm giving them room to grow or just lazy? </p><p></p><p>Thanks again for this soft place to land last night I'm sure it is a lot more comfortable then a jail cell would have been, and if I would have had to sit here silent would have probably had a stroke. </p><p></p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="helpangel, post: 620759, member: 7170"] Thanks everyone for the support, wow I broke all my rules for dealing with my difficult child's when made that post... verbal attacks about the kid not the behavior, name calling so glad I typed it instead of flat out yelling it at her. I had been doing so good at mentally detaching from the drama, then saw my kid seriously harm another kid who didn't deserve it and snapped. I'm just so glad I chose typing over going to jail last night because everything in me just wanted to hit her! This whole thing with youngest having friends over is new yesterday was first time she has invited a friend to hang out for a couple hours, yes there have been kids in for introduction then they split but never to just hang out here. I'm kind of glad Angel's siblings both threw the book at her last night because today Rachel had a boy over. Not her boyfriend his best friend (when I heard of this a couple days ago insisted she invite boyfriend also even if I need to transport to make it happen) Anyway Angel knew she was dangerously close to me starting eviction process so she stayed in her room the entire time. boyfriend didn't come over just friend but it went fine they had lunch, played Wii & then lego's. One thing I found strange is the mom came in to meet me, verify adult here and kind of check me out; I could understand that if they were 12yo but this boy is gonna be 18 in a couple months. I thought the girls parents were out of line trying to choose all her friends and put those restrictions on an 18yo, but after meeting that mom today wondering if there is a different rule book for parents of difficult child's? I thought teens you're suppose to give them enough rope to hang themselves with and only step in before they actually choke the life out of themselves or ask for help; wondering at this point if I'm giving them room to grow or just lazy? Thanks again for this soft place to land last night I'm sure it is a lot more comfortable then a jail cell would have been, and if I would have had to sit here silent would have probably had a stroke. Nancy [/QUOTE]
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