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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 119483" data-attributes="member: 393"><p>It's most important to have everyone on the same page. My tweedles have a "village" helping in raising them. We have frequent staffings & team meetings. If it doesn't happen therapy doesn't stay on track & the whole treatment plan goes down the toilet.</p><p></p><p>Like the others suggested pull together a family meeting & outline your difficult children needs & rules. It would help if you & husband worked on this together before the meeting of the minds - if husband's input is asked for he'll feel more involved, more invested in this plan.</p><p></p><p>Like Sue, you & husband need to stay on track with talking with one another. My husband would struggle with decisions that I was making for one tweedle or the other but refused to be a part of the decision making process. I finally told him, either put up, shut up or move over because we didn't have the luxury to wait for him many times to mull things over for a month or so until he felt "comfortable" with things.</p><p></p><p>husband has chosen to shut up unless he feels strongly about part of the treatment plan; then he's learned to speak his mind with all concerned (not just me). That's taken some of the load of my shoulders.</p><p></p><p>You are at the start of this journey - it's going to take time to fine tune the nuances of the treatment plan. To see what is going to work & what isn't. This is also the time to get the key players on board. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/you_go_girl.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":you_go_girl:" title="you_go_girl :you_go_girl:" data-shortname=":you_go_girl:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 119483, member: 393"] It's most important to have everyone on the same page. My tweedles have a "village" helping in raising them. We have frequent staffings & team meetings. If it doesn't happen therapy doesn't stay on track & the whole treatment plan goes down the toilet. Like the others suggested pull together a family meeting & outline your difficult children needs & rules. It would help if you & husband worked on this together before the meeting of the minds - if husband's input is asked for he'll feel more involved, more invested in this plan. Like Sue, you & husband need to stay on track with talking with one another. My husband would struggle with decisions that I was making for one tweedle or the other but refused to be a part of the decision making process. I finally told him, either put up, shut up or move over because we didn't have the luxury to wait for him many times to mull things over for a month or so until he felt "comfortable" with things. husband has chosen to shut up unless he feels strongly about part of the treatment plan; then he's learned to speak his mind with all concerned (not just me). That's taken some of the load of my shoulders. You are at the start of this journey - it's going to take time to fine tune the nuances of the treatment plan. To see what is going to work & what isn't. This is also the time to get the key players on board. :you_go_girl: [/QUOTE]
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