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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 681381" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>Her issues may well stem from that - and it's not like you had any control over THAT experience. Unless you were directly neglectful or abusive - not likely - you are not directly responsible. Simple. </p><p> </p><p>However, there may be other things that have happened that you have no knowledge of and had no control over, which have also helped shape her. Kids spend a significant portion of their lives with teachers and coaches and other care providers.</p><p> </p><p></p><p>I know what you mean about people thinking our challenging child is "bad". He isn't. Most people, handed the set of challenges he has, would have given up on life long ago. Inside, there is a wonderful person. We get to see this wonderful person from time to time - and a lot more often than the "outside world" sees.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 681381, member: 11791"] Her issues may well stem from that - and it's not like you had any control over THAT experience. Unless you were directly neglectful or abusive - not likely - you are not directly responsible. Simple. However, there may be other things that have happened that you have no knowledge of and had no control over, which have also helped shape her. Kids spend a significant portion of their lives with teachers and coaches and other care providers. I know what you mean about people thinking our challenging child is "bad". He isn't. Most people, handed the set of challenges he has, would have given up on life long ago. Inside, there is a wonderful person. We get to see this wonderful person from time to time - and a lot more often than the "outside world" sees. [/QUOTE]
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