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We got N into an Anxiety Clinic.
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 213710" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Toto,</p><p> </p><p>I am so so sorry N spends much of her time being so unhappy. I have faith that you and your husband will find the right help for her.</p><p> </p><p>I do not feel nearly as alone as I did before I read this thread. </p><p> </p><p>I also hid in small spaces as a kid, i can remember spending HOURS hiding under a desk as a kid. With a book and a blanket and my kanga I was just fine. </p><p> </p><p>But I worried a LOT. I HATED any kind of arguments - my parents had to keep quiet to go outside where I couldn't hear to have a disagreement - I would be inconsolable. It was REALLY REALLY hard with a gfgbro iin the house. HE thrived on chaos and conflama. And I really didn't thrive on them.</p><p> </p><p>It wasn't easy to be my parents. BUt, even after all these years, my family still treats me as "overreacting Susie" - even when almost every single thing they said I was exaggerating about or overreacting on ended up being right. It really WAS as bad as I said, and really DID need to be addressed.</p><p> </p><p>I know you will take care so that N does not feel dismissed as I did, and I think it is absolutely incredible the way you work with N and K so that BOTH their needs are met.</p><p> </p><p>(I know this thread wasn't to gather kudos, but you really are a terrific parent and an inspiration!)</p><p> </p><p>Hugs to N and K from Auntie Susie, and if they can, can they ask Aunt Abbey to quit using my cat as a hat?? She has a Dr. Seuss theme and Star said she stole my cat to wear as a hat.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 213710, member: 1233"] Toto, I am so so sorry N spends much of her time being so unhappy. I have faith that you and your husband will find the right help for her. I do not feel nearly as alone as I did before I read this thread. I also hid in small spaces as a kid, i can remember spending HOURS hiding under a desk as a kid. With a book and a blanket and my kanga I was just fine. But I worried a LOT. I HATED any kind of arguments - my parents had to keep quiet to go outside where I couldn't hear to have a disagreement - I would be inconsolable. It was REALLY REALLY hard with a gfgbro iin the house. HE thrived on chaos and conflama. And I really didn't thrive on them. It wasn't easy to be my parents. BUt, even after all these years, my family still treats me as "overreacting Susie" - even when almost every single thing they said I was exaggerating about or overreacting on ended up being right. It really WAS as bad as I said, and really DID need to be addressed. I know you will take care so that N does not feel dismissed as I did, and I think it is absolutely incredible the way you work with N and K so that BOTH their needs are met. (I know this thread wasn't to gather kudos, but you really are a terrific parent and an inspiration!) Hugs to N and K from Auntie Susie, and if they can, can they ask Aunt Abbey to quit using my cat as a hat?? She has a Dr. Seuss theme and Star said she stole my cat to wear as a hat. [/QUOTE]
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