Our little girl just turned 5. There are some behavioral patterns that are beginning to cause me concern. In pre school they either get a stamp for being good or no stamp at all. At least twice a week she doesn't get a stamp, sometimes she doesn't get a stamp all week. Her teacher says she refuses to sit when told, she will shove other children and basically ignores instruction. Her teacher also says she just stares at her when she tells her to do something if she doesn't want to do it. I know this is true because she does the same thing with my husband and me. We constantly remind her to say please and thank you, she will never do it on her own. When she is spoken to by someone she doesn't know she refuses to acknowledge them. I have tried rewarding her for good behavior at school and taking things away when her behavior isn't pleasant. She makes me so sad because she will say "I try to be good, it's so hard".
She doesn't like for us to show her affection, she will push us away unless she is "in the mood". If she gets a booboo she normally pushes us away if we try to comfort her.
I have to give her instruction over and over again once is never enough. She absolutely will not do what she is told without being told over and over or threatened with a consequence.
I am so confused and frustrated. I am 47, have raised 2 college aged young men and I absolutely do not remember it being this difficult. The thing is I am so much more patient with her. We read to her daily, let her help cook, play with her and on and on.
Does any of this sound like normal or abnormal behavior for a 5 yo little girl.
Thanks
She doesn't like for us to show her affection, she will push us away unless she is "in the mood". If she gets a booboo she normally pushes us away if we try to comfort her.
I have to give her instruction over and over again once is never enough. She absolutely will not do what she is told without being told over and over or threatened with a consequence.
I am so confused and frustrated. I am 47, have raised 2 college aged young men and I absolutely do not remember it being this difficult. The thing is I am so much more patient with her. We read to her daily, let her help cook, play with her and on and on.
Does any of this sound like normal or abnormal behavior for a 5 yo little girl.
Thanks