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We saw easy child's 'apartment'~
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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 372506" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">DDD!!! I know! It's wonderful, just as we arrived home, difficult child was heading out to boyfriend's for the night - we had the house to ourselves again! I am loving not having easy child at home - no attitude and tension in the house at all. Nice.</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">Oh Janet, I am sooooOOOoooo detached, really, it's like I don't care...it's borderline apathetic! Not a care at all about her leaving. I think the only reason I 'wonder' about the boyfriend is because it was so soon after she broke it off with Casper - he's the rebound boyfriend, Know what I mean?? My exh was my rebound and he was a pothead. I see history repeating itself, but I know, I know, we all have to live our own lives. That is the only area in which I actually have to conciously think and practice detachment. I don't want to see her go through what I went through, but she will have to learn these things on her own. And of course, I could be completely off and he may end up being perfect for her! Who knows, I feel like she's a completely different person than the one I've know for all these years. He works and shares a house with 2 other guys. He pays all his bills in cash only because he doesn't have a bank account - that, to me, is a red flag. But, my motto has become, "Whatever" and then I let it go. </span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 372506, member: 2211"] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]DDD!!! I know! It's wonderful, just as we arrived home, difficult child was heading out to boyfriend's for the night - we had the house to ourselves again! I am loving not having easy child at home - no attitude and tension in the house at all. Nice.[/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue][/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]Oh Janet, I am sooooOOOoooo detached, really, it's like I don't care...it's borderline apathetic! Not a care at all about her leaving. I think the only reason I 'wonder' about the boyfriend is because it was so soon after she broke it off with Casper - he's the rebound boyfriend, Know what I mean?? My exh was my rebound and he was a pothead. I see history repeating itself, but I know, I know, we all have to live our own lives. That is the only area in which I actually have to conciously think and practice detachment. I don't want to see her go through what I went through, but she will have to learn these things on her own. And of course, I could be completely off and he may end up being perfect for her! Who knows, I feel like she's a completely different person than the one I've know for all these years. He works and shares a house with 2 other guys. He pays all his bills in cash only because he doesn't have a bank account - that, to me, is a red flag. But, my motto has become, "Whatever" and then I let it go. [/COLOR][/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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