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Well, difficult child's have cajones thats for sure!
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<blockquote data-quote="2much2recover" data-source="post: 646330" data-attributes="member: 18366"><p>[QUOTE="Jabberwockey, post: 646328, </p><p> </p><p></p><p> </p><p>Ours can, has, and does argue with facts right in front of him and in black and white. "But that's not fair!!" being the default argument/whine.</p><p> .</p></blockquote><p>I meant it is in black and white for the two of you to see the manipulations and the controlling behavior- at some point you will tire of having to repeatedly explain yourself. It is so much easier to track what has been said/done when you see it written there instead of acting/reacting when you are emotional. It goes along with the "breath, Lil, breathe" - texting gives time for responses to marinate. As for the repeated phone calls - I put a special ringtone for my difficult child - " let me call you sweetheart" because she is anything but lol. By having the special ringtone you decide when/if to awnser. Also when difficult child is on a rant, nothing prevents you from blocking/unblocking his number for 24 hours or until he settles down. Just tools in the toolbox!</p><p>[/QUOTE]</p>
[QUOTE="2much2recover, post: 646330, member: 18366"] [QUOTE="Jabberwockey, post: 646328, Ours can, has, and does argue with facts right in front of him and in black and white. "But that's not fair!!" being the default argument/whine. .[/QUOTE] I meant it is in black and white for the two of you to see the manipulations and the controlling behavior- at some point you will tire of having to repeatedly explain yourself. It is so much easier to track what has been said/done when you see it written there instead of acting/reacting when you are emotional. It goes along with the "breath, Lil, breathe" - texting gives time for responses to marinate. As for the repeated phone calls - I put a special ringtone for my difficult child - " let me call you sweetheart" because she is anything but lol. By having the special ringtone you decide when/if to awnser. Also when difficult child is on a rant, nothing prevents you from blocking/unblocking his number for 24 hours or until he settles down. Just tools in the toolbox! [/QUOTE]
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