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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 635519" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>So doing this quick. He broke the rule on the car. Went to a "friends" house. Why? I bet MWM could guess. To get some form of weed. Says the guy let him down and it was all for nothing. </p><p></p><p>There was quite a lot of drama. His. He was totally freaking out. Shouting. Trying to get us to talk, yell, fight. We didn't allow ourselves to be pulled in. When he was relatively calm we had a talk. He hates working...big surprise. He's gone from sitting on his butt 24 hours a day to doing factory work 9 hours a day. He's exhausted and stressed and I personally believe he did this, at least subconsciously, to get caught, lose the car, lose his job. </p><p></p><p>No. Please don't judge, but we aren't, at this point, taking the car. The job is 8 miles away and he's too new to know anyone to give him a ride. I am not inclined to get up that early and drive him. I am not going to give him a reason to quit. So, we will be checking the milage daily. If it happens again, he will lose the car and perhaps his home. </p><p></p><p>One reason we took this route is he's agreed, actually suggested, counseling. He needs it. If only to perhaps learn some coping mechanisms. I wish I could describe it better, but I do get the feeling he's close to a change. He's actually open to this. And we'll give him that chance. </p><p></p><p>Rough night. </p><p></p><p>Sent using ConductDisorders mobile app</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 635519, member: 17309"] So doing this quick. He broke the rule on the car. Went to a "friends" house. Why? I bet MWM could guess. To get some form of weed. Says the guy let him down and it was all for nothing. There was quite a lot of drama. His. He was totally freaking out. Shouting. Trying to get us to talk, yell, fight. We didn't allow ourselves to be pulled in. When he was relatively calm we had a talk. He hates working...big surprise. He's gone from sitting on his butt 24 hours a day to doing factory work 9 hours a day. He's exhausted and stressed and I personally believe he did this, at least subconsciously, to get caught, lose the car, lose his job. No. Please don't judge, but we aren't, at this point, taking the car. The job is 8 miles away and he's too new to know anyone to give him a ride. I am not inclined to get up that early and drive him. I am not going to give him a reason to quit. So, we will be checking the milage daily. If it happens again, he will lose the car and perhaps his home. One reason we took this route is he's agreed, actually suggested, counseling. He needs it. If only to perhaps learn some coping mechanisms. I wish I could describe it better, but I do get the feeling he's close to a change. He's actually open to this. And we'll give him that chance. Rough night. Sent using ConductDisorders mobile app [/QUOTE]
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