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<blockquote data-quote="Mattsmom277" data-source="post: 310295" data-attributes="member: 4264"><p>Star, I'm livid beyond what I can explain, on behalf of your Dude. </p><p></p><p>I don't even know what to say about the Dec. deadline for move out. I know it is a problem as to where Dude would be best after this placement. I will watch hopefully for your posts in the wish that you'll soon be posting about a great place for Dude when that date comes.</p><p></p><p>That having been said, Dude will be better off somewhere else. This family (sarc) is being PAID to have difficult child there. He is legally entitled to enter the darn house!! That a YOUNG boy is moving in, under 12? OMG! Nope. I'd be blowing through the roof. </p><p></p><p>Whatever agency has authorized this place for placements? They need a reality check! This place is run by the Gestapo! I've been there, done that, as a temporary resident in more foster homes than I can count. Believe it or not, I also lived in a place where I was only allowed in when the fosters were home, even if their bio kids were home. This included when raining, snow storms, -30 temps, etc. IT IS ILLEGAL! </p><p></p><p>When it is closer to time for Dude to leave, I suggest a well written complaint. WRITTEN complaint. CC'ed to every state representative you can find a address for, the local media, anyone and everyone who might have an interest. You know, failed foster homes are BIG news these days. I am glad to see it. I luckily know the love and caring and support of a great set of foster parents as well. But you know, out of over 25-30 placements, I had ONE set of parents that cared about the kids and treated us as human beings. </p><p></p><p>I wish I lived closer and had a granny suite apartment to rent cheap to Dude. I hope this works out for him. That he finds a place he can find happiness to call home.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mattsmom277, post: 310295, member: 4264"] Star, I'm livid beyond what I can explain, on behalf of your Dude. I don't even know what to say about the Dec. deadline for move out. I know it is a problem as to where Dude would be best after this placement. I will watch hopefully for your posts in the wish that you'll soon be posting about a great place for Dude when that date comes. That having been said, Dude will be better off somewhere else. This family (sarc) is being PAID to have difficult child there. He is legally entitled to enter the darn house!! That a YOUNG boy is moving in, under 12? OMG! Nope. I'd be blowing through the roof. Whatever agency has authorized this place for placements? They need a reality check! This place is run by the Gestapo! I've been there, done that, as a temporary resident in more foster homes than I can count. Believe it or not, I also lived in a place where I was only allowed in when the fosters were home, even if their bio kids were home. This included when raining, snow storms, -30 temps, etc. IT IS ILLEGAL! When it is closer to time for Dude to leave, I suggest a well written complaint. WRITTEN complaint. CC'ed to every state representative you can find a address for, the local media, anyone and everyone who might have an interest. You know, failed foster homes are BIG news these days. I am glad to see it. I luckily know the love and caring and support of a great set of foster parents as well. But you know, out of over 25-30 placements, I had ONE set of parents that cared about the kids and treated us as human beings. I wish I lived closer and had a granny suite apartment to rent cheap to Dude. I hope this works out for him. That he finds a place he can find happiness to call home. [/QUOTE]
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