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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 310370" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Try to answer some of your questions.....</p><p></p><p>Legally yes, I could have sat in the car with him, called the police and had them tell the fosters he needed to be let in. Dude said he's not doing it. Did I want to go up and pound on the door? You bet I did. Did I want to go to jail for trespassing? Nope. Would they have called the law on me? Possibly. (shrug) I'm not violent, but they're nuts. </p><p></p><p>This morning I picked Dude up and when I got there, the friend also came out of the room.??? The foster Mom had a little something to say to me about it in a not so nice tone. Up to that point? I was cordial. Then I said "Well I didn't know the boy was here with Dude, but I am not surprised because when I dropped Dude off, I sat out here in my car at 9:00 in the dark, Dude came up on the porch, knocked on the door to get in, your daughters boyfriend walked across the living room floor in a pair of gray flanel shorts, looked out the window at Dude, shook his head NO and went back to his room - So I had to take Dude, and his bicycle in the dark to his buddies house. Doesn't surprise me at bit that the buddy came here with him to make sure he got home safely. She just stared at me like - UT OH. And I said - WELL Since I took the day off WORK and I'm loosing MY pay to do someone ELSES job AGAIN- I need to get going. And walked out. </p><p></p><p>I took him to the place he did his hours and they tried to pass it off that they didn't remember him. They also did not speak very good English and said that the owner was in Canada. SO I asked them in Spanish what they would do if the building fell down - how would they get ahold of their boss? He said "Well we would have to call him, but I don't have the number here." I asked "Where is the number I will take you to get it." - It was across the street. (Duh) I told them if Dude didn't take a simple piece of paper to probation with that info. TODAY - he was going to jail. IF he went to JAIL because THEY didn't do what THEY were supposed to do months ago - it would not be good for him could they please help us? He said I have no way to call - I held out my phone. Oddly enough? THAT MAN WHO WAS NOT AVAILABLE IN CANADA? lol....was at a local number....not even a cell phone. hahah. </p><p></p><p>Then we went to probation. THAT was scary. Yuk. Can anyone say - clorox wipe? BLECH. Posted on the wall is a sign that says - people coming in there have TB, AIDS, the flu.....(Okay bRb...going out to my car for some of those little handy wipes) and I cleaned my chair....OMG the filth on that napkin was....<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/sick.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":sick:" title="sick :sick:" data-shortname=":sick:" />. Then Dude came out (because I have to wait in the lobby) and his probation officer agreed to meet with me. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /></p><p></p><p>YEAH! I told her - HERE is my card. I am his REAL Mother - he has one, and a Step Dad....he's not just some "system kid" that no one cares about. I explained life as we knew it, the crud at the Foster home and enlightened her as to the "missed" phone calls, the NON-messages delivered...and why they don't take him and did NOT take him and did NOT give him the messages she left yesterday. Had he not seen her message on caller ID? HE would be in JAIL today -----HOW ABOUT THAT FAMILY? TELL ME THEY ARE NOT MANIPULATING the system. So.....with that knowledge....she redid the paperwork..and gave him a verbal warning. NOT a violation. He is not going to jail. We also got a lot of other things straightened out - like....There is a little girl that lives at the house who tells people that call he doesn't LIVE there - so jobs aren't being gotten. They don't give him MY messages.....OR HERS.....so I got him a cell phone.....here ....take the number. I told her about the fosters DAUGHTER choking dude...and the son kicking his car. I told her about them locking him out of the house...and everything else. I told her they are kicking him out to get a kid that they can keep QUIET.....and her jaw was on her desk....and I told her that he's tried to get disability - and he WILL work - but they are not helping and make him pay to bring him to MY HOUSE....and wont take him for interviews because gas is expensive....</p><p></p><p>SO SHE is setting him up with Voc. REhab.....and will make SURE the foster is being watched to take him 3 days a week...<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/tongue.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":tongue:" title="tongue :tongue:" data-shortname=":tongue:" /> HA. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/tongue.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":tongue:" title="tongue :tongue:" data-shortname=":tongue:" /></p><p></p><p>I also called a disability atty.......we're going to appeal....<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /></p><p></p><p>And now I'm goign to have a glass of somethign stronger than water. </p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/redface.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":redface:" title="redface :redface:" data-shortname=":redface:" /> - MILK! WHAT A DAY......</p><p></p><p>ANd as far as the caseworker? And the Foster system? </p><p></p><p>YEah - they can go rot......DUde said he'd rather just find a place to go or live in a tent in my yard than continue to get their help....did not want me to go tell anyone anything today.......so fine.....I didn't. But I was ready for it. Another day perhaps.....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 310370, member: 4964"] Try to answer some of your questions..... Legally yes, I could have sat in the car with him, called the police and had them tell the fosters he needed to be let in. Dude said he's not doing it. Did I want to go up and pound on the door? You bet I did. Did I want to go to jail for trespassing? Nope. Would they have called the law on me? Possibly. (shrug) I'm not violent, but they're nuts. This morning I picked Dude up and when I got there, the friend also came out of the room.??? The foster Mom had a little something to say to me about it in a not so nice tone. Up to that point? I was cordial. Then I said "Well I didn't know the boy was here with Dude, but I am not surprised because when I dropped Dude off, I sat out here in my car at 9:00 in the dark, Dude came up on the porch, knocked on the door to get in, your daughters boyfriend walked across the living room floor in a pair of gray flanel shorts, looked out the window at Dude, shook his head NO and went back to his room - So I had to take Dude, and his bicycle in the dark to his buddies house. Doesn't surprise me at bit that the buddy came here with him to make sure he got home safely. She just stared at me like - UT OH. And I said - WELL Since I took the day off WORK and I'm loosing MY pay to do someone ELSES job AGAIN- I need to get going. And walked out. I took him to the place he did his hours and they tried to pass it off that they didn't remember him. They also did not speak very good English and said that the owner was in Canada. SO I asked them in Spanish what they would do if the building fell down - how would they get ahold of their boss? He said "Well we would have to call him, but I don't have the number here." I asked "Where is the number I will take you to get it." - It was across the street. (Duh) I told them if Dude didn't take a simple piece of paper to probation with that info. TODAY - he was going to jail. IF he went to JAIL because THEY didn't do what THEY were supposed to do months ago - it would not be good for him could they please help us? He said I have no way to call - I held out my phone. Oddly enough? THAT MAN WHO WAS NOT AVAILABLE IN CANADA? lol....was at a local number....not even a cell phone. hahah. Then we went to probation. THAT was scary. Yuk. Can anyone say - clorox wipe? BLECH. Posted on the wall is a sign that says - people coming in there have TB, AIDS, the flu.....(Okay bRb...going out to my car for some of those little handy wipes) and I cleaned my chair....OMG the filth on that napkin was....:sick:. Then Dude came out (because I have to wait in the lobby) and his probation officer agreed to meet with me. :winking: YEAH! I told her - HERE is my card. I am his REAL Mother - he has one, and a Step Dad....he's not just some "system kid" that no one cares about. I explained life as we knew it, the crud at the Foster home and enlightened her as to the "missed" phone calls, the NON-messages delivered...and why they don't take him and did NOT take him and did NOT give him the messages she left yesterday. Had he not seen her message on caller ID? HE would be in JAIL today -----HOW ABOUT THAT FAMILY? TELL ME THEY ARE NOT MANIPULATING the system. So.....with that knowledge....she redid the paperwork..and gave him a verbal warning. NOT a violation. He is not going to jail. We also got a lot of other things straightened out - like....There is a little girl that lives at the house who tells people that call he doesn't LIVE there - so jobs aren't being gotten. They don't give him MY messages.....OR HERS.....so I got him a cell phone.....here ....take the number. I told her about the fosters DAUGHTER choking dude...and the son kicking his car. I told her about them locking him out of the house...and everything else. I told her they are kicking him out to get a kid that they can keep QUIET.....and her jaw was on her desk....and I told her that he's tried to get disability - and he WILL work - but they are not helping and make him pay to bring him to MY HOUSE....and wont take him for interviews because gas is expensive.... SO SHE is setting him up with Voc. REhab.....and will make SURE the foster is being watched to take him 3 days a week...:raspberry-tounge: HA. :raspberry-tounge: I also called a disability atty.......we're going to appeal....:winking: And now I'm goign to have a glass of somethign stronger than water. :blushing: - MILK! WHAT A DAY...... ANd as far as the caseworker? And the Foster system? YEah - they can go rot......DUde said he'd rather just find a place to go or live in a tent in my yard than continue to get their help....did not want me to go tell anyone anything today.......so fine.....I didn't. But I was ready for it. Another day perhaps..... [/QUOTE]
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