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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 310729" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>The apartment thing has kids there that are a little more street wise than I would like Dude to be around...and the fsoter dad really kinda messed that up by telling everyone he wanted Dude to stay with them. I expressly remember asking him if he was SURE he could handle this = because it was until SPRING...he said smiling at Dude - Yeah...He could handle the money. Is what he should have said. </p><p> </p><p>Well now all of a sudden since I saw their daughters boyfriend not allow Dude in I guess they think the fits gonna hit the shan and they are ready to abandon ship. Fine - whatever - guilty conscience more than likely. </p><p> </p><p>I'm not sure if the apartments are a possibility - but if Dude goes there? Then school is out. School is part of the must have to finish probation. He's doing well where he's at 2 days a week is about all he can handle. If he moves - he'll fail. So I have no idea what is going to happen. And then there is just finally making friends. For the first time in his life. We're really heartbroken for this kid. Things are finally starting to come together for him - and WHAM...Now the adults are acting like children. Go figure. </p><p> </p><p>I called Dude tonight to tell him that we feel they (fosters) are doing everything they can to set him up and possibly get him arrested or in jail. If he's in jail then he can't retalliate. I told him they want to get him out and they want him out ASAP. The most awful thing is he was hurt. Not angry but hurt. He said - but by the end of the year right? I said no, by the end of the month or sooner. He said "Fine - I'll be out by the weekend if i have to live in a ditch - it's better than there." I asked him if he was spending the night..he said no. I said maybe you should try to recall all the nights you have not spent there just this month and let your caseworker know so your foster parents don't get paid for days they aren't supposed to - and make sure they're staying on track with doing things the legal way since they seem to be so concerned all of a sudden on doing things the right way. He said he would. </p><p> </p><p>He said he does not want to come here and live. I told the caseworker he can't come here to live. That makes it OBVIOUS someone has to get something nailed out soon to help him...there are no shelters here - they've all closed. He has no friends to go live with and the only other option is to go live with his biodads relatives - nice...that should be interesting. He just makes friends and now this. He's just sick over all of this. I wish I knew what to tell him. I have no good answers. </p><p> </p><p><img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 310729, member: 4964"] The apartment thing has kids there that are a little more street wise than I would like Dude to be around...and the fsoter dad really kinda messed that up by telling everyone he wanted Dude to stay with them. I expressly remember asking him if he was SURE he could handle this = because it was until SPRING...he said smiling at Dude - Yeah...He could handle the money. Is what he should have said. Well now all of a sudden since I saw their daughters boyfriend not allow Dude in I guess they think the fits gonna hit the shan and they are ready to abandon ship. Fine - whatever - guilty conscience more than likely. I'm not sure if the apartments are a possibility - but if Dude goes there? Then school is out. School is part of the must have to finish probation. He's doing well where he's at 2 days a week is about all he can handle. If he moves - he'll fail. So I have no idea what is going to happen. And then there is just finally making friends. For the first time in his life. We're really heartbroken for this kid. Things are finally starting to come together for him - and WHAM...Now the adults are acting like children. Go figure. I called Dude tonight to tell him that we feel they (fosters) are doing everything they can to set him up and possibly get him arrested or in jail. If he's in jail then he can't retalliate. I told him they want to get him out and they want him out ASAP. The most awful thing is he was hurt. Not angry but hurt. He said - but by the end of the year right? I said no, by the end of the month or sooner. He said "Fine - I'll be out by the weekend if i have to live in a ditch - it's better than there." I asked him if he was spending the night..he said no. I said maybe you should try to recall all the nights you have not spent there just this month and let your caseworker know so your foster parents don't get paid for days they aren't supposed to - and make sure they're staying on track with doing things the legal way since they seem to be so concerned all of a sudden on doing things the right way. He said he would. He said he does not want to come here and live. I told the caseworker he can't come here to live. That makes it OBVIOUS someone has to get something nailed out soon to help him...there are no shelters here - they've all closed. He has no friends to go live with and the only other option is to go live with his biodads relatives - nice...that should be interesting. He just makes friends and now this. He's just sick over all of this. I wish I knew what to tell him. I have no good answers. :frowny: [/QUOTE]
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