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well well well....here I am..... I need some "positive" reinforcement
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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 395070" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Nope. I wouldn't. I'd have to say the refusal to man up and be a dad to his daughter would be the last straw for me too. I'd tell him sorry, but it's your life, time you figure it out all by yourself.</p><p></p><p>If he's not ready to change, then there is just no point. It just opens you up to a lot of drama and heartache and gives him a place to flop until you can't put up with it anymore.</p><p></p><p>I know it won't be easy this time of year especially. But seriously, if it were me, I'd tell him no. If he wants to return to his hometown there are ways to get there. He can call travelers aid for one, but he has to have someone to say that he can live with them before they'll pay for it. He doesn't have to really stay with them. They just call the person and the person says yeah or no. Katie and family got their bus tickets paid for that way. I told them they would be living here. They are staying in a dayton shelter.</p><p></p><p>This time I think it's best to follow your brain. Now don't be such a stranger!</p><p></p><p>(((hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 395070, member: 84"] Nope. I wouldn't. I'd have to say the refusal to man up and be a dad to his daughter would be the last straw for me too. I'd tell him sorry, but it's your life, time you figure it out all by yourself. If he's not ready to change, then there is just no point. It just opens you up to a lot of drama and heartache and gives him a place to flop until you can't put up with it anymore. I know it won't be easy this time of year especially. But seriously, if it were me, I'd tell him no. If he wants to return to his hometown there are ways to get there. He can call travelers aid for one, but he has to have someone to say that he can live with them before they'll pay for it. He doesn't have to really stay with them. They just call the person and the person says yeah or no. Katie and family got their bus tickets paid for that way. I told them they would be living here. They are staying in a dayton shelter. This time I think it's best to follow your brain. Now don't be such a stranger! (((hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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