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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 293821" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Wsm, I feel for you. But I think you know husband isn't going to suddenly become the man he should be. It will never happen. He is mommy's wittle boy and she comes first. You aren't on his list because he is more interested in pleasing HER and HER relatives than you. You aren't even on the radar. He is so tied into his sick web that he doesn't even know how to be normal. I'm not sure you can save SD even if you stay. Believe me when I say, without you or husband knowing it, this boy could have and may have sexually abused her. Sexual abuse victims NEVER TELL ANYONE. THey are too ashamed and too terrified. The best thing that you can do for her in my opinion is to get her out of that nuthouse. </p><p>That "we never tell/trust outsiders" is to cover up abuse. It's beyond sick. </p><p></p><p>I hope for your sake you do get out. You aren't getting any younger. You are still bright and deserve a life. Your life is not to save this sick family. It's not going to be within your control. I would contact a lawyer in secret to find out if there is anything you can do for your stepdaughter. If he is not protecting her, and you are the only mother she ever knew, you may have rights that you don't even know about. </p><p></p><p>I hope you do have the life you deserve one day. This is one of the worst situations I've ever read about on the board. Sadly, you married into a psychiatric center with everyone shutting out the world and denying everything. in my opinion husband is a sick man too. He isn't responsible for his mother's happiness. SHE IS. If he doesn't get that by his 40's, he never will. </p><p></p><p>Good luck.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 293821, member: 1550"] Wsm, I feel for you. But I think you know husband isn't going to suddenly become the man he should be. It will never happen. He is mommy's wittle boy and she comes first. You aren't on his list because he is more interested in pleasing HER and HER relatives than you. You aren't even on the radar. He is so tied into his sick web that he doesn't even know how to be normal. I'm not sure you can save SD even if you stay. Believe me when I say, without you or husband knowing it, this boy could have and may have sexually abused her. Sexual abuse victims NEVER TELL ANYONE. THey are too ashamed and too terrified. The best thing that you can do for her in my opinion is to get her out of that nuthouse. That "we never tell/trust outsiders" is to cover up abuse. It's beyond sick. I hope for your sake you do get out. You aren't getting any younger. You are still bright and deserve a life. Your life is not to save this sick family. It's not going to be within your control. I would contact a lawyer in secret to find out if there is anything you can do for your stepdaughter. If he is not protecting her, and you are the only mother she ever knew, you may have rights that you don't even know about. I hope you do have the life you deserve one day. This is one of the worst situations I've ever read about on the board. Sadly, you married into a psychiatric center with everyone shutting out the world and denying everything. in my opinion husband is a sick man too. He isn't responsible for his mother's happiness. SHE IS. If he doesn't get that by his 40's, he never will. Good luck. [/QUOTE]
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